Help plz. trying soo hard.?

Question

ttc for 11 months now...

:(

still, nothing.

is this normal?

Answer 1

The worst think you can do is stress out so try to realx.  I read yesterday that the chances of becomming pregnant decreases with age so I know how you feel because my chances are very slim now.  However there are teas and herbs that you can try. I'm also trying to learn how to use the lunear cycle.

Try taking quai (tang kwei or angelica sinesis)

Evening Primerose Oil during menstration to ovulation

switch to flax seed oil after ovulation

take red raspberry leaf during your full cycle

You can probably find these at a healh food store.

I will be trying these to maybe it will work for both of us.

Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 2

my advice would to be stop focusing so much on it. I have seen this so many times where couples are trying to get pregnant and give up. A couple from my church tried for 18 months then decided to adopt then when finalizing the paperwork ended up pregnant. Just relax some and let nature take its course. The one thing that worked for me was to elevate your butt on a pillow during intercourse then stay elevated for 30 minutes. Best of luck to you, hope this helps.  

Answer 3

you can definitely see a Dr. at this point - have you? You may need a little assistance... that doesn't mean you can't do it, but you may need some help :)

Answer 4

It can take awhile sometimes. Most docs tell you to try a year before getting help. You could try herbal blends or see if your doc will try Clomid or Metformin. I had success with both of those. Best of luck sweetie!