Help..:(( plzz...i am in a serious problem..its regarding masturbation?

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helpp.. :(( plzz...m in a serious problem.. its regarding masturbation?

I m in a very serious problem.. its regarding masturbation, i m a male of age 16, i know that masturbation is a healthy practice, but i really dont want to m********e, becoz everytime i m********e it makes me come under a lot of stress, and it consumes a lot of my time, and i just dont feel gud aftr masturbation, and thn just dont feel like doing oder work...in short my life become h**l..i tried to convince my self that its a healthy practice but it didnt work..

sum months back i managed to stop masturbation for 5 months..and i was soo happy and active and i felt soo gud,and i was more confident in life and i was able to concentrate in studies better,,, my overall perfomence in life had dramatically increased both mentally and socially,

I know everone masturbates .. but i dont want to..atleast until i become a successful man..

but some time back i came to know that masturbation reduces the risk of prostate cancer,

so can u plz tell me IF I DONT m********e THEN WILL IT CAUSE ANY BAD EFFECT ON MY BODY..?? plz temme...and yea i get around 3 times nocturnal emission in a month... soo ejaculation keeps on occuring regularly, will it reduce d risk of prostate cancer..

Answer 1

masturbating=100% normal

Answer 2

dude. how can u not w**k.   :S

Answer 3

I think masturbation is not your problem.. .. your problem is only stressful life that what you will just have to control ...don't get stress. . .

If you are getting stress then obviously you will unable to do your other works and you will think you are suffering just because of masturbation    . .no not at all

Let me solve this problem. . .Just do one thing . . . If you are not unable to control this then just learn to forget this. . . means do whatever you wants, but forget whatever you did. . .it's also a difficult thing, but don't get upset about it. It will more easy than stopping things. .

be sure, it will not effect your body in both conditions. . .just don't miss your daily routine works and especially meal. . .just eat appropriate nutritions . .

Answer 4

yeah you can get buildup.  it wont kill you to shoot your load at least once a month.

Answer 5

lol dont stress your all goood ur worrying about nothing

Answer 6

the psychlogical takes a major role in it

if u r confidecne and u are prepared mentally then u go ahead.

feel relax while doing it not do it in hurry take time in it .

to control on mind meditation is best tool.

Answer 7

a healthy advice would be to m********e at least once every 3 weeks, make it on weekends if you want. it is dangerous not to because s***n stuck on testes can cause problems, so you have to get them out of you. dont spend another 5 months without it!

Answer 8

I agree with keshu - I don't think masturbation is your basic problem. It ought not to be making you tired, nor should it occupy a lot of time. Married couples have s*x 2 - 3 times a week without any such problem.

Immediately after o****m it is normal to feel tired, and to lose all interest in s*x; but the same happens after s*x with a partner. This could cause you to feel you have done something wrong; if so, try reflecting that you've just done your health a lot of good.

Is your attitude to life a little too serious - are you driving yourself too hard? There needs to be room for relaxation and fun.

As I understand it, the thinking is that masturbating frequently as a teenager reduces your risk of prostate cancer in LATER life. There seem to be benefits for your general health too - This is from Wikipedia:

"A 1997 study in the British Medical Journal based upon 918 men age 45-59 found that after a ten year follow-up, men who had fewer orgasms were twice as likely to die of any cause as those having two or more orgasms a week."

Please think carefully about your lifestyle as a whole - workload, stress, nutrition, social life (we all need good friends), and religious principles. If masturbation is causing the bad effects you describe, then something is wrong medically or psychologically. Your future wife will want you to express your love for each other through "the joy of sexual union" as the marriage service puts it; you owe it to her, and to yourself, to sort out this problem now.

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Answer 9

What's healthy for you is what works for you at the time.

  

This is not a big deal either way.  If you're really concerned you should research it, or talk to your doctor.  Believe me, they've heard it all.