Help plzz i need help on my family issues?

Question

my parents say im useless im a worthless piece of trash, they never wanted to listen to me, my parents beat me badly with belts they scream at me every morning at around 7:00 for no reason im 15 and they started doing all this from the day i turned 8. my mom likes to tell my dad thing not true about me and so my dad hits me soo much i really cant take it anymore. they even said i could get lost and even to kill myself. so ive been trying to kill myself but i cant find the courage i need and i also dd try to run away but even then where would i go. ive talked to my friends and they dont take it seriously and im very shy i cant talk to counselors. so far death is my only option.

i need some advice.

Answer 1

sounds to me like your parents have some serious problems. you dont want to kill yourself, really that only makes things worse for everyone involved. including me. your 15  you only have 3 more yrs. til your 18. if its really too bad then go to your local police . do you work? if its possible for you to work and save your money til your 18 and can get out on your own. its gonna take all the money you can save up. that will give you some hope, something. whether you stay with your parents or somewhere else you can still work  and save your money. start your on bank account. but if your in danger, please go to the police. they will protect you. do you have bruises or anything you can show the cops. thats what they will need is proof. please e-mail me back sometimes so i no you are alrite.  

Answer 2

Death is no where near your only option so please don't kill your self,it takes more courage to live.You don't deserve a life like that,I'm so sorry you have it.You should really talk to Mandie K.She seems like the perfect friend for you.....you're awesome and don't let anybody tell you other wise.Please remember to only care about what YOU think of you NOT your parents.Don't take the easy road out like your parents,they're cowards.Someday you can have a family of your own and give them the life you should have,just to prove to your parents who really is the worthless one.

Answer 3

Don't kill yourself sweetheart. Too many people care about you. Call this number or go to this site and get help for yourself. Good luck and God Bless you.

http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

If you aren't ready to tell on someone but you want to talk about your feelings and what is happening to you, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453), then press 1 to talk to a hotline counselor. Your call is anonymous. (That means that the hotline counselors don't know who you are unless you tell them.) Sometimes it is easier to tell your problems to someone you don't know.

Lots of kids have mixed feelings about the person who is hurting them, especially if they loved and trusted that person. You may be afraid of the person who is hurting you, and are "scared silent."

The Childhelp hotline counselors can explain different things that you can do. They can also tell you what might happen as a result of each one

If you are a child or teen who is in danger, the Hotline counselor will help you contact someone such as Child Protective Services, or the police. If needed, the Hotline counselor will stay on the phone as part of a three-way call.

The Hotline counselor will not tape the telephone conversation or ask for your name

Answer 4

your parents are the one with the problems not you. you are just letting it roll off onto you. what is killing yourself going to prove? stay on the right track do not let thier words bother you and ignore them. when people talk like that to their kids they are unhappy theirselves. hae no faith in themselves see theirselves as a failure. so they have to blame it or take it out on the children. it's hard because you have both of them doing this. stand tall. God made you in his image. he loved you so much that he brought his only son here to die for our sins. if it had only been you on this earth he still  would have went to his death on the cross for just you. you need to see yourself how God see's you. Read  your bible see how God relates to the people in the old testament. you will learn alot of how God loves us. you need to be around only positive people. change your friends if they ar negative. go looking for the positive in life not the negative. you need to stop believing in what your parents are saying and put a deaf ear to it. when they see you being positive and happy even though tey are contiuing to say those things and see it doesn't bother you anymore, they may change. never take your own life. it not worthit. for what your parents because they are so miserable and they are making you miserable so you want to die? find agood friend a positive friend someone you know you can trust. and start going to their house and staying and doing your homework and stuff there. if they will let you. find a good friend and do things with her and her  parents. all your parents are doing is destroying your happiness because they are not happey. don' let them have the power over you in this situation. you have got to overcome it. and you have to do it your self. make some changes. for the positive. don't look fo hang around negative people stay away from them. tose bully's are not happey either. so something is wrong with them too. i hope you will do this and see changes in your life. Pray!!!!!!! it works i am a believer in that. ad you have to really mean it from your heart when you pray to him.it took me a long time to see what God has done for me. now i do as i have gotten older. he is real!!!!! and good,love,happiness and more. see ya pgg

Answer 5

What kind of option is death? At 15 I thought I would never survive my parents. I learned to stay out of the way and out of the house when I could. I am now 41 and I still feel my heart race when I hear a car on gravel cause my old driveway was gravel and that ment they were home. I would panic about what they were gonna yell about this time. I can promise you it gets so much better. In just a short time you can get out. Join the military or go away to school. Dont let them get the best of you. Once your out your life will begin. Stay strong for yourself cause sometimes you are all you have.  

Answer 6

you need to get the guts to tell them that this is wrong and that if they keep up you will leave.

oh and by the way - and if they did drugs or something then threaten them like "and once i leave i will tell the police about your drugs!

i am 15 also and my step mom is the same way and my dad is always standing by her side no matter what she says or do and sticks up for her so i know what you mean. i feel your pain everyday every hour but i let it go through one ear out the other. good luck i hope i helped

Answer 7

Honey, you need to call the police if your parents are hitting you with belts. You need to tell someone, anyone grownup, like a teacher or even a trusted neighbor. In my experience, telling other relatives doesn't always work but if there is one you can trust, tell them. Please get help immediately. You might try calling a kid's help line. I don't know where you live, but they have them every where. The point is that you MUST tell someone. There are many options and you deserve a better life than this. I'm not a praying person, but you will be in my thoughts! Good luck!!

Answer 8

You can report your own parent to child protective services. Look in the phone book for the number you can also call 911 when they start hitting you or even telling you the c**p that they say. If you are trying to run away there is a runaway hot line that you can call. They can give you some advice as to where you can go. Maybe life away from your parents is a good choice for you. If you don't ask for help you may end up dead. I don't think that is what you want. I am truly sorry for the parents that God chose for you.  

Answer 9

look boy, you need to talk to your principal and ask her/him what to do.  If I were your age that is what i would do.  

to get the courage you just have to imagine that if you don't do it then it won't get better and if you just confront your principal it is very likely that things will change.

Answer 10

Ohmygod! Poor baby!! Please don't kill yourself. I know someone who had a similar situation. They nearly killed themselves but realized they had a little sister who cared for them. I'm 15 and my mother is really controlling. I'm hitting the door when I graduate. All you need is a really good friend to talk to. Trust me, when I was depresses, my boyfriend was with me the whole time and eventually brought me around. There is someone who cares. I actually care about you, cause this story breaks my heart. Look, man, if you ever want to talk, you should e-mail me at [e-mail]. Please e-mail me and let out some of this. I'm going to type it again, [e-mail]. I really looking forward to hearing from you.

Answer 11

do you have a relative nearby that you trust? talk to them.  move in with them, and get them to get your parents some help (consoling).  if that doesn't help don't be afraid to report them for child abuse.

Answer 12

first of all, no one is worthless!!! please please realize that. i don't know what your parents are thinking but you need to find an adult that you trust and talk to them. yes, it will be hard at first but it is a whole lot better than taking your life. you are only 15 and you have your whole life ahead of you. i know this sounds weird coming from someone that you have never met. my dad's real dad and stepdad pretty much did the same thing to him that your parents did to you. but my point is, if my dad had tried to take his life as you are talking about, me and my sisters would have missed out on a wonderul parent. just please please, find someone you can trust. whether its a friend a counselor at school or someone at church find someone.

PS i'll be praying for you. please don't give up.

Answer 13

First of all, you are not worthless and you need to go talk to someone immediately and get out of that environment.  It's scary and its hard but you are living in a really serious relationship.  It's hard to talk to someone at first but going to a counselor or a teacher you trust--they will help you get the right help.  It's scary but do tell someone immediately who can help you.  And death is not the answer, you have your whole life ahead of you and its going to get better.  But you must take action.  Just from reading your note, I can tell you do have a lot to offer this world.  Your a survivor !