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Hello! Yesterday my son went outside to check the mail, and something told me to watch him from the window, and on his way back he was attacked by a group of young boys (ranging in age from 8-12). The 12 yr old said “There he, is get him” and the group ran up to him, knocked him down, proceeded to hit him, until I could get the window open and yell at them to stop. After talking with my son and neighbors, I found out this is an ongoing issue that happens almost everyday he gets off the bus. My son has hid this issue from me for some reason, and I’ve been told there’s no reason for their actions, they just like to do this and they call themselves “the little bloods”, because they plan on joining the bloods when they get older. My son is only 7 yrs old and now obviously can’t even go outside to check the mail or play, unless I’m running right behind him. I’ve spoke with the bus driver and plan on speaking with the principle to make sure these kids don’t harass him while at school. However, I wanted to if anything can be done to the kids who attacked him. When I approached the 12 yr old he was very disrespectful and stated they’ll just get him next time. Can assault charges be filed on the12yr old and/or the younger kids? I’m very upset with this situation and hope it doesn’t go any further, but these kids are obviously looking for trouble. Basically I would like some advice on what to do, besides follow my son around, because now that’s a must! Thanks for your time and any information you offer in advance

Answer 1

my little bro had this problem i simply beat the c**p out of the biggest one (he was like 13 i was 15) and it fixed it so if he has a big bro ask him to "fix it" or if not find a neighborhood kid to do it tell him to do it till he crys.

Answer 2

Yeah.  A child can be charged from the age of 10 up.  If your goona go through with this then make sure you contact the police and have plenty of evidence. Eg: take photos of recent cuts, bruises etc.  Have some witnesses as well.

Answer 3

This happend recently to a friend of my sisters and if its really damagable to your son then take it to court, because nobody, absolutly nobody should have the right to asult someone. or take it to the principle, because your son should be able to feel safe whenever hes at school, whenever he gets off that bus, and whenever he is on that bus.

Answer 4

Bullies only react to consequences. Threats don't mean anything. Immediate consequences are better than delayed consequences. Yes, I would call the police and see if he can be arrested for assault and give him a taste of what it would REALLY be like to be a "blood". Pepper spray might be a good idea, where you walk over and let the biggest bully have it, if he is beating on your son. Consequences, consequences, the more immediate, the better.If you want to spend time doing the better thing? Most hostility is caused by a lack of nurturing. Bullies almost always lack nurturing. If you can show nurturing, you become valuable and there won't be anymore bullying.

Dr. Jay

Answer 5

I was bullied as a child and it was not fun.  It left permanent damage emotionally that I still have nightmares about.  There was nothing wrong with me it's just that kids are really mean.  I would tell your child to defend himself.  Sign him up for karate or some self-defense class.  Kids always think they are tough when they are in a group.  You could try talking to the parents but chances are that if the kids are that bad that they apple doesn't fall far from the tree.  In the schools here there is a no bullying rule.  It will not be tolerated.  I would call the police.  Let these punks know that you mean business and that their behavior will not be tolerated.  A 12 year old picking on a 7 year old is really mean and cruel.  I don't blame you for being upset.  I hope this was helpful to you.  I hope that everything works itself out.  Hang in there.

Answer 6

call the cops! mini hoodlems need to be scared strait

Answer 7

I sure as heck would not only be pressing assault charges but trespassing as well and anything else you can come up with. I'm sure there are other things to tack on since the incident sounds premeditative and on-going. I've read on here that police aren't likely to bring charges against a child but I am sure if you press the issue and if you can afford it, hire a lawyer you can get something accomplished. For your son's sake, I would try.

Answer 8

Call the police.  This is a crime you know.

Answer 9

You can always give the police a ring- they'll consider the factors and decide whether or not this is a serious enough issue to take to court. Of course, since the bullies are underage they'll take it to the juvenile court and impose a much lighter punishment on the bullies' families.

Besides just calling the police, please go and speak to the parents of the bullies. It is crucial if you want this bullying to end, or else your boy is going to receive h**l. And I know this may seem a little insane, but please teach your child to stand up to bullies. Please do it. I've been a victim before, I was eight then and it was torture, and since then I've learned to stand up for myself. Don't mollycoddle your child or throw a pity party for him- teach him to defend himself. Self-defence is necessary when dealing with violent bullies.