Help really weird situation here..?

Question

well i've been really good friends with this guy since we were about 5 and now we're 15 and still pretty close and i admit that i do kinda like him more than a friend but he has a girlfriend who is really nice and i am honestly happy for both of them and i've stopped flirting with him since he started going out with her and stuff, anways his girlfriend's best friend has started seriously flirting with him and it annoys me because she is ment to be his girlfriend's best friend and the worst part is he flirts back! and also i sit with him in a few classes and he always does things like tickles me and play fights with me and his girlfriend's friend (the one who flirts with him) always looks at me like she hates me when this goes on and she has recently started saying really nasty stuff about me to other people and i don't understand why, anyone have a clue what the h**l is going on here??!!

Answer 1

You need to tell your male friend about this. Tell him that it's wrong for him to flirt with another girl and even you when he already has a girlfriend. And tell him that his girlfriend's best friend is spreading rumors about you because of the fact that he flirts a little with you.

It sounds like this other girl is jealous of her friend's relationship with this boy. Although you can't change how she feels, you can at least change the situation so that you can save both yours and his reputation.

-Dee