My husband and I have been married for about 3 months. My husband is very into his work and has had options to travel.
We were married in May and he traveled (against my will) for 6 months from January which was before we were married till June which was after. I told him that I wanted him to come home constantly and he said that it wasn't my choice it was his.
Well, while he was gone, I moved back to our home town and made some friends. One friend was a childhood friend and went to the church I grew up at and the one my husband and I were attending. My friends and I grew close again and would call and text each other. Well, since June, when my husband came back home, he has been very possessive and very controlling. NO abuse though, but he was complaining alot to me. He didnt want s*x very much, it was only when he wanted it about once a week. He was snooping in my car, closet, and everywhere. He would freak out when I went to my parents, my sisters house, or to church!!
Well, yesterday morning, he got ahold of my phone and read through some of the txt messages and freaked out. I was talking to one of my guy friends and he had complimented me. He called me 'girl' and said 'love you'. My husband freaked out and told me to get out and wouldn't even let me explain. A few hours later, my phone was cut off, he had called both of our parents and said I was cheating on him, which was NOT TRUE!!!
He came home last night and didn't have his ring on, told me he wouldn't stay at our house if I was here, said he wanted an anollment, called me names, said he was going to travel again, etc.
I don't want our marriage to end! I love my husband and would NEVER cheat on him. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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