Help should I tell him right away?

Question

Ok there's this single friend of mine who I am in love with. we almost kissed two years ago and we're both Christians and virgins. He's 28 and not looking for a relationship. Anyway he travels alot because of learning new things or missions(if longer than a few months).

Anyway he's posted pictures of his adventures in Hawaii and on his team there's two guys including him and two gorgeous women who don't dress modestly like I do. When I see pictures of those ladies and him having a good time with him........I feel threatened and the need to tell him right away to tell him I have feelings for him and if he ever wants to pursue me when he's ready for a relationship he can.

Am I jealous? I never felt this way before.

And besides....I have a medical condition where I'm lacking a hormone or two that gives you a s*x drive. In other words I have NO s*x drive and I am going to the doc about it so that I can make love to my husband when I marry him(whoever that may be). So I do feel they can provide for him what I have.

Suggestions? Should I tell him right away how I feel or tell him before he leaves?

Answer 1

You shouldn't tell him.  Let him come to you.  I know it's hard, but he already stated that he's not looking for a relationship.  You'll seem pushy and men don't like feeling or being pushed.  That'll make an enemy out of him quick.  So get into yourself.  You've heard the saying:  If it belongs to you, it'll come back.

Answer 2

I WOULDN'T TELL HIM IM IN LOVE WITH HIM THATS A LIL OVER WHELMING  BUT TELL HIM  I WOULD TELL HIM THAT I REALLY LIKE HIM AND HAVE BEEN HAVING THE FEELINGS  FOR A LONG TIME EVER SINCE WE ALMOST KISSED I NEVER STOPPED THINKING ABOUT YOU I JUST WANTED TO KNOW IF MAYBE WE CAN START AGAIN WHAT WE STARTED BEFORE