Help so confused i think i am a medium sound dumb i know i don't even believe in it so how do i know if i am

Question

its not the 1st time this has happen to me it all started when i was about 13 i was on the phone talking to a friend about someone who had died in our school and all of the sudden i heard his voice didnt think much of it then when i was a senior i moved in with my grandfather i was laying down in the cough and i felt some1 touching my face but no1 was their i tried to get up but it was like some1 was holding me down so that freaked me out didnt think much of it now years went by nothing till a month or so when i found out 1 of my aunts daughter was sick and this time i was walking down the hall going to sleep when i saw a little girl and i thought it was my little girl that she got out of bed so when i went down to pick her up it was air i couldnt pick her up and next thing i knew it was gone and then i get a call from my mom that my aunts daughter passed away now my aunt daughter isnt little she was about 35 or so now i see her in my dreams and shes sending me messages for her family

Answer 1

I'd suggest a psychiatrist.

Answer 2

No, you're not a medium. There is no absolutely no credible evidence that so-called mediums have any power at all. It's just power of suggestion, coincidence, dreams, and nothing more.

By the way, Denie, lots of things happen and have happened to me in my life, just not things that make me irrational.

Answer 3

sounds like you have a gift

Answer 4

Well not to say anything bad or something but i believe your lieing or just thinking your a medium which is making you think these things. Your experience at 13 could have been your hormones or you thought about him and heard a memory of him talking to you. And you laying on the couch and feeling something well i feel that to sometimes. A stray fly or a dust particle. And you not getting up is maybe your muscles reacting to you laying on the couch for a long time and its harder for you to move when laying in a position for a long time. You seeing your daughter or your aunts daughter could be just a cloths hanger or a jacket. And did you ever see your aunts daughter when she was young? And also you dreaming about your family members isn't uncommon. If you think about a thing or object for a long time it will eventually come up to your subconscious. So my advice try not to think about it to much read a book until you drop asleep so you don't think about it to much.

Answer 5

Judging by the sheer lack of...commas/periods/punctuation...anythi... in your writing, I'm assuming you're too immature to be serious about any of this, no, you're not a medium.

Answer 6

Don't worry. This happens to a lot of people.

It is a gift, don't run from it.

Love and blessings Don

Answer 7

It's possible -- I totally believe in this stuff -- I don't care what any skeptics say.  Is it in your family by any chance?  Grandmother possibly too???

We had a ghost in our apartment (I WANTED to think it was my father but......don't know) --- it played tricks and turned toys on, knocked stuff off the counters, etc., etc. and I've seen it but it went away -- and I'm kind of sad about that.

Answer 8

Have you ever heard of Sylvia Brown?  Read some of her books it will help you.  

When you were on the couch being "held down", spirits can't do this.  It's a thing called Astral catalepsy.  It's you, trying to get back in your own body.  You must have fallen asleep.  That is usually when this happens.  Please read about it.  As far as your visions go every night ask god to help you make sense of them.  Only to give you information you can do something about.  Amazing things are happening to you and I encourage you to read Sylvia's books.  You'll feel better, it'll all make sense and you'll know how to handle this.

Answer 9

You know many people get this and it starts at a young age also. You have a sixth sense there. Try speaking to a psychic or someone that specializes in this type of work.

Answer 10

Go with your first instinct.It's dumb, don't believe it.

Answer 11

It's good that you're trying to find answers to what happened to you ...instead of carrying it around in your head all by yourself.Stuff happens. As for the skeptics and cynics..."Just because somebody says something..doesn't mean it's true" You can also tell them "What you say is what you is!!" and "Back atcha!". They answer the way they do because NOTHING EVER HAPPENS TO THEM!! It's good that you asked this question. There are lots of us out here with similiar questions.You Go Girl !!

Answer 12

I agree, sleep disorders are often mistaken for the old hag syndrom such as you describe. I find it ironic that research is showing that these sleep disorders are actually real! yet the skeptics out there were telling everyone that feeling a ghost holding you down so you cant breath or move was not real and there was no evidence to support the claims. Now its a recognized disorder. Because serious money was spent to reasearch it, not redicule it.

Answer 13

Sleep paralysis might explain how you felt like you were held down when you were sleeping.  Look into it.

I will not comment on the rest.

Answer 14

I'm confused too, I think I'm an apple pie.  But probably when the shiraz wears off I'll realise I'm just a toad.

Mediums aren't real, so you can't be one.  

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Answer 15

I do that too but not about death,just the future while i sleep

Answer 16

Here come my thumbs down, but here goes:

The world is made of energy. You have a gift that allows this energy to be transformed back into language and expression. Use your gift to figure out what these spirits want to say or finish.

I don't think you're dumb! I believe you!!!