Help? teacher question?

Question

Right well...I'm sixteen.

And my teacher is 23, and he's so fit.

And I'm going out with him, someone plz help, I'm confused. Am I wrong?

Answer 1

Your teacher is wrong. It is unethical for him to go out with you because inside or outside the classroom, he is still a person of authority and is liable to be charged with corruption of a minor.

Answer 2

You should not be dating your teacher.  You are too young.  This could turn into something very illegal very fast.  I hate to say it this way, but a 23 year old man who is dating a 16 year old girl, does NOT have the best intentions.  There is something wrong with him.  He can get fired for this.

Answer 3

I'm not sure which disturbs me more: that you are serious about asking this question or that you have to ask this question.

You are wrong, but he is more wrong.

No 16 year old should be romantically involved with someone who is 23.  The adult should know this.  No matter how adult you seem, you're still a minor and it is illegal.  He could be charged with statutory rape, lose his job, lose his teaching license, and lose his freedom.  As far as I'm concerned, he should.  Because you are a student (whether his student or not), he should absolutely know that you are underage.  And as a teacher, he should know that being involved with a student is immoral and illegal.  You need to find someone your own age.

Answer 4

It is absolutely wrong to for a teacher to date a student. If you both are caught (and let's face it, it is high school so everyone finds out everything) then he will not only lose his job and never work in teaching (or with kids) again, he can also go to jail as a s*x offender and then register as a s*x offender. He will have trouble getting any work anywhere. If you both are serious about seeing each other, just wait until you are 18. One of my friends actually dated one of our teachers when we were in high school (a decade ago). Rumors went around and people found out (even though they were very secretive about it). The thing that they had on their side is that 1, she was 17 and almost graduated when they started dating and 2, her parents knew about it and approved of it. I'm not saying it was right but that is one very rare instance that it actually worked out. Do you really want to ruin his career?

Answer 5

Not much to be confused about:  yes, you're (both) wrong.  But he's more wrong, if that helps, because he is the adult in the situation; therefore he bears the burden of responsibility in initiating and/or maintaining a relationship with a minor that will cost him not just this job, but his entire career.

Yeah, his *career*.  He can forget about teaching ever again.  In fact, if it becomes a criminal issue and he's convicted (because having s*x with you is technically illegal), he will have to register as a s*x offender...in which case he can forget about *working* ever again.  So do you really want to hook up with someone who may have a great body but is chronically unemployable?  Pecs mean nothing if he can't pay the bills.

You're not old enough/mature enough to engage in a relationship with someone that much older, much less someone who is in a position of authority over you.  Want proof?  You know it's wrong (or you wouldn't be here), yet you're letting your hormones make the decisions.  *That*, kiddo, is immature.  Break it off.

Answer 6

illegal.  He's a pig.  Next question