Help us out?......?.....?

Question

This guy I like is confident,s**y,flirty..with everyone but me.When we meet in company he never makes eye contact with me,he answers my questions but never looks at me while doing it.Yet to every other and far more attractive women,he has deep professional eye contact.Thing is,he told me that he loved me a few times,but I never acted on it cause his behaviour and his standoffishness made me doubt him.We had a big fight where he gave me an ultimatum to tell him if I loved him or not.The things he said during he fight were so cruel that I chickened out and we barely spoke for a long time.Lately I have been making an effort cause I miss the guy and still love him.He responds well on a one to one and looks into my eyes,but again,if someone else is there,he will look anywhere but at me.What gives?Is he telling me in a gentle way to **** off?Or is he waiting for me to make the first move in resolving this?

Answer 1

I have always believed that if he can't look you in the eyes and talk he is hiding something>

Answer 2

he is not ready to decide what he wants.He does have feelings for you just be patient if he wants you he'll tell you but don't pressure him.

Answer 3

he can't look into your eyes because you make him feel more vulnerable than anyone else makes him feel. It's good cause he cares about you and what you feel about him. Pursue him if you really want him but make sure it's what you want.

Answer 4

Sorry to say this but I think he feels uncomfortable around you because of what happened and he's not ready to fix things between you and him. Don't overwhelm him because that will make him ignore you even more.  Show him that you are not affected by this and maybe he is acting that way to make you feel bad for not telling him that you loved him.  Be glad that you didn't say something that you didn't mean at the time because a lot of people lie to themselves and others by telling them that they love them but they really don't.  

Answer 5

He says he loves you and insisted on you responding the same way but you wouldnt.  he said horrible mean things to you and backed off...and now you're drawn back to him?   Be very careful and think this thing through.  If you back off it will help you see more clearly if he has good intentions or not.  itll play itself out that way, but keep your distance and dont get too caught up in hoping, becasue he really may not be that good for you.

Answer 6

Actions speak louder than words give him a hummer in the bathroom or some where private.  good luck