Help w/ husband and mother n law?

Question

Well I have been married to my husband for almost a year now. And every since I first started dating my husband I could tell she was very bossy! Well her and the rest of his family is so rude to me. When they have cook outs for holiday's or birthday's,are always rude and they act like they don't wnt me there. His mom is always disrespecting me, and lst night she disrespected me in my own home. And my husband always says that he talks to her about but last night she was just so rude to me and being disrepectful to my husband. My husband acts like he is scared to take up for me. But I am fed up with his family being mean and disrespectful to me. They haven't even tried to get to me. It's really aggravating, and it's hurtful that my husband sn't take up for me! What should I do?!

Answer 1

Stay away from them. After a while they might clue in...don't go out of your way to be nice to them (it would be fake and not worth it)...just do your thing with your husband and be happy. Take Care

Answer 2

Girl, you married a guy without any balls!!  He's a mama's boy!!!

You knew that and you agreed to him being like that when you married him!!

Don't want a tiger, get him home and expect him to be a pussycat!!  YOU MARRIED HIM KNOWING SHE WAS LIKE THAT AND HE WAS LIKE THAT.

Answer 3

Give them a reason to act like that. Be a total ***** towards them or tell your hubby to grow some balls.

Remember, the difference between in-laws and outlaws is outlaws are wanted.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

That is tough and I feel for you. I am in a similar situation. My husband and I have been married for about five months and I found out a few weeks ago I was pregnant. His mother will not stay congratulations to me or anything, when she mentions the baby it is HIS baby, when I commented on my morning sickness she said "big deal, every woman goes through it". She is rude to me all the time and has been since we started dating. I waited a year for him while he was in Afghanistan and she was rude to me during that time. And when he tries to talk to her she turns it around saying I just don't like her. I hope you have better luck than I have been having. Mother in-laws can suck. Has your husband been married before? Mine has and she asks more about his ex and wants to talk to her far more than me. It's frustrating. I finally stood up to her the other day, but it only made things worse. I am so tempted to take my baby and run because I want her no where near my baby.

Answer 5

I would not allow them over at my home anymore. Tell your husband he needs to tell his family that they are not welcome until they can learn to respect you. I would also stop going to their family functions. Plan something else at those times.

Tell your husband to grow some balls and stick up for his wife!

Answer 6

Uhhm is your husband a guy or a girl?

you said "she" was very bossy?

At any rate he sounds like a momma's boy and you knew he was before you married him.Stand up to your mother in law like an adult.

Answer 7

Don't allow them to come back into your home. Since your husband can't stand up to his mother, then you need to call her up and tell her yourself that she isn't welcome at your house anymore until she learns some respect, and that she'll have to come talk to you before things change back. You might want to tell your husband what you're going to do, but even if he is against it you need to go ahead and tell her. Plus tell the rest of the family the same thing and let them all know that you or husband neither one will be hanging around them anymore.

Taking things to a new level. If it's possible (and it might not be) move. Get away and don't tell them where you're going. Some might say the you're running from the problem but in reality if they aren't willing to do as you ask, then you have to take things to a new level, and do what is necessary to save your marriage.