Help!! wat should i do?!?! how can i get over my ex?

Question

ok so there is this boy i like him alot and im pretty sure i love him we have ben going out for a month and 5 days. but... my ex is still in the picture i like him and for some reason i cant let go of him i want to cause i want to let new love in but at the same time i dont. i love my bf and he is super sweet to me and will do anything for me. but my ex says the same thing but me and him are allways fighting over the stupided stuff. thats why we pretty much broke up in the first place,. im gana stay with my bf cause he is my world but what can i do to get out of the middle, and get over my ex ??

Answer 1

Obviously things with your ex did not work out. It sounds like he's just jealous that you're in a new relationship and really happy. You're hard to get. Think of it like this: if you DID break up with your bf for your ex, odds are you wouldn't have the same appeal as you did when you were "ungettable". Focus on the fact that your current boyfriend loves you, and isn't just trying to possess you out of jealousy.

Answer 2

If you truly want to remain with your bf, stop having any contact w the ex, put all your effort into the new bf, dont betray him, if you're not into the relationshp, then break it off, but I guarantee that the ex won't want you once your single.. The grass is always greener..

Answer 3

If you're not over your ex then it could be quite possible that your current boyfriend is just a rebound. Try telling your current boyfriend that you need a break and just take some time to yourself to figure out who you really do want to be with.

Answer 4

You have to have a serious think. i know you said you wanted to stay with your current bf so is it worth cutting out your ex totally from your life? Or if not, why not? If you fight all the time then you need to get to the root of your problems and have a good long think as to whether you really should stay with your current bf when you still like someone else.

Good luck!

Answer 5

well put it this way you and your ex are over and if you 2 are fighting you 2 are not for each other thing a bout the guy you are with now and look at him hard and if you dump him you are going to lose him and how do you know that you ex is not lieing to get in your pants think a bout it you need the boyfriend you have now so keep this one and if you and your boy friend break up there is always some one else that you love so much so  just stay with the guy that you have  now and see what happens  

Answer 6

He's your EX for a reason.......... Give it time, time heals everything!

Answer 7

Stay away from your ex and cut off all communication with him.

Answer 8

DRINK MORE!

Answer 9

You are going to get over him, believe me!

The first thing to do is *hide* all of your memories of him.  Pictures, gifts, letters - everything in your room, locker, or purse that reminds you of him should be hidden. You have to hide them really well and don't go peeking at them, or give them to a friend you trust to hold for you.

Then, distract yourself with a *new* hairstyle.  If you can afford it, go buy something unusual. Something you wouldn't ordinarily wear or buy.

Promise your friends not to mention your ex's name! Make a deal that if you mention him you have to do a chore for them.

Find one *new* physical activity you really like - bicycle riding, going to a gym, taking a dance lesson or just taking the dog for a walk, and do it every day for the next seven days.

Find a great book about a strong woman and start reading.

I recommend the Princess trilogy, by Jean Sasson. It's the life story of a Saudi princess. Or The Joy Luck Club,  by Amy Tan. These are stories of brave and unusual women who lived interesting lives.

Finally, this is the most important - don't talk to your ex. This will help get him out of your system. Spend more time having fun with old friends, improving your mind, and getting healthier.

Hope that helps:)

Answer 10

There's really nothing we can do to help you, but all I can say is this.

You say you love your new b/f and I believe it, but if your ex is still in the picture, than somewhere in your mind or heart, you still have feelings for your ex.  Which isn't something that gets cured over night.  So as far as advice goes all I can say is that it's really up to you.  None of us can tell you how to get him out of your head, you just have to decide how important he is to you. If he moved would you care? If your answer is yes then maybe you should do some real soul searching and think about if your new boyfriend is right for you, or if you still do love your ex.  Either way the out come of this is that you can't have both, you're going to lose one of them but it's your decision as to which.

Hope I helped and good luck.

Answer 11

remind yourself of why he is your ex

and answer mine

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Answer 12

My ex's never have that problem.  They all get over me fairly easily.