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He's Australian...when we met I made it clear I would never live in Oz...I am from the UK...he accepted this and we married and now have 2 children 4 years and a baby of 5 months. He wants us to live in Oz now...for 3 years he says...but what's the point? We have no house of our own in the UK and will have nowhere to return to...my eldest is now at school...I have lived in Oz for a year just to try it and I hated it..he has no family apart from his Mother ..I have a large extended family with a lot of little cousins that are a big part of my kids lives...I told him that if he is homesick we could have an extended holiday but he says we cannot afford it...I said HE could go alone, maybe for 2 months....but that's not good enough for him and he wants to go for 6 months...I am shocked as he loves his kids so much ...is he trying to blackmail me? Use emotional games to make me go there? I don't see him doing it...he has been saying since the kids were born that he wanted us to live there and he knows I wont...wouldn't he have gone already if he had it in him to leave? To be honest I hated Oz so much I would rather live in the UK as a single parent....the rows are making me feel ill and deppressed...I wake up and am happy...then I remember and I feel awful. I love him..but it is my life too...what good will a miserable Mum be to two girls who are used to a happy one? He reckons we should buy a house in Oz and rent it out and then return to UK...but that sounds stupid to me...dollar to pounds we'd be out of pocket!
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