I have run into a snag, having to do with a student I formally had. Going back some, I was subbing for two years for a teacher that had gone on leave, this being my first real job, I found the first year unusually uneventful. However, in the second year of my substituting I had a student who was having some problems in her life that I didn't really notice at first until I spoke with her some more and watched her actions. Talking on field trips and after school , we became friendly but, had some issues between us along the way. I told a counselor of her problems which I didn't realize she only wanted my ears to hear but, it opened my eyes some to what might have been unfolding.
Around the time the first semester of the year was ending the student moved, by this time, I had suspicions of what she might have felt for me just by reading off her actions but, I put it off as me flattering myself. She visited once or twice and I always made time for her even when she would leave the room for most of her visit.
Now that that long story is out of the way it's time to move on to my current problem. When her close friend was graduating, she returned to visit for graduation, and her actions nearly proved my suspicions. (Crying with a hug, ands rare smile).
My problem is, as dear as this student is to me, she is a student. I really don't know how to let her down easy without hurting her, or how to prevent our relationship from coming to that. I know it would take great courage for her to confess especially seeing how much of a tomboy she is. Don't get me wrong, I do care for her and she is a sweet girl which is why I just don't want her to feel hurt.
I know there is very little chance of us seeing each other again, even though I asked for her email and would like to see her, I don't see it happening. I just want to be prepared
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