Help with a dream involving my dead mother?

Question

My mother died about 4 years ago, when I was 14. I don't dream about her much but last night I had a dream about her.She was here in our new home, and she was filling the dishwasher, me and her and my dad were hanging out and my dad's girlfriend was in the dream too. In the dream my mom was talking to my dad about figuring out how things were going to work between them since she was alive again but also because my dad has a new girlfriend. My mom told me she didn't like any of the decorations my dad's girlfriend had put up in our new house, I told her I hated them too. In the dream I was really happy because she was there with me and we were laughing. Any idea's what this dream could mean? My dad's girlfriend moved in with us about a month ago

Answer 1

I think this is about you feeling guilty about accepting this woman into your home. You don't want to be disloyal to your mother.   When we pass over to the spirit world, we want only what's best for the loved ones we leave behind. The only emotion we feel is love. Rest assured your mother wants you and your father to be happy.  There is no jealousy or anger, just love.   Welcome this new girlfriend and help your dad to move on. It must be hard for you, bless you, but your mother is happy and watching over you.

Answer 2

It sounds like you may have some fears about your mother being "replaced" by your dad's girlfriend.

Answer 3

it sounds like subconsciously you are afraid that your mother wouldn't approve of what's going on in your life. it also could be that you're afraid of how your dad's girlfriend is going to work in this new life. when your mom was talking to your dad about how things would work out, it may be what you're wondering with how things will work. it could be your fear of your dad's girlfriend replacing your mom, too.

hope this helped. =]

and im sorry about your mom, but im glad that life is moving on.

Answer 4

You mother came to visit you because you need some support at this time in  your life . When she was talking with your father ; about   how figuring things out ; what she was saying is this ;; I can see you from where I am ; by body is dead ; but my spirit is alive ; and I want you to take care of my son and right now I do disagree on certain change and rules in the house ; but the end of your dream is very good . When you were laughing with your mother ; she was telling you this ;;; You will not live long here with a step mother ; you will find a place for yourself and you will be happy

Answer 5

maybe its a way of her telling you that she is with you no matter what and that shes watching over you...

Answer 6

It means that you are uncomfortable with your dad's girlfriend, and you miss your mother.

It also means that your mother meant a lot to you, and you don't know whether to love your dad's girlfriend or love your mom without disrespecting her by loving your dad's girlfriend.

The dishwasher represents water, which represents tears, which represents loneliness and sadness.

In dreams, the people in your dreams represent part of you. For example: You had a dream about your mom, your mom represents 'love'. Your dad's girlfriend might represent 'confusion'.

Since your 18 now, you are in college, going to college, or making really big decisions. It must be hard for you. All your confusion probably comes out when you're asleep.

If you  don't really like your dad's girlfriend, then these dreams show a part of it, but littler by littler, you are starting to like her without even realizing it.

Hope I helped.

Answer 7

well if you don't like your dad's girlfriend, then you were probably thinking about how you miss your mom and that you don't want your dad's girlfriend living with you guy's but you want your mom instead. i hope this helps! and please check out my ?'s too! and i'm sorry about your mom.