Help with a dream....?

Question

I had this dream the other night that really bothered me. First let me give you a little bit of history. I dated this guy for a year and a half until about 6 months ago. He broke up with me because he believed something about me that wasn't true and didn't even bother getting the truth from me first. Okay so the other night I had a dream that I walked into this restaurant and he was sitting in a booth across from this girl who I assume is his new girlfriend. Well I walked in and he stared at me but I kept walking to my table and I sat down. Later on I got up again and he was staring at me. Then I walked and sat back down at my table. Then later he walks to my table and sits down across from me...then I woke up.

Would you be able to give me some insight to this dream? I'd really appreciate it because now every night since I've had that dream, I keep dreaming about him after not even really thinking about him for a few months.

Thanks so much!

Answer 1

well: accordingly to  " Dream Interpretation is very  important

thing  as knowing answers Social  Science just think of better efforts

that will help with Understanding dreams Are common thoughts only

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Answer 2

I think you still like him.

Answer 3

hmm well im no professional but it sounds to me maybe something during the day has sub-conciously reminded you of your boyfriend which triggered this dream, thus now your conciously remembered him which has triggered more dreams... just my opinion i hope this helped

Answer 4

To dream that you are in a restaurant, suggests that you are feeling overwhelmed by decisions/choices that you need to make in your life. Alternatively, it indicates that you are seeking for emotional nourishment outside of your social support system.

To dream about your ex-boyfriend suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.

To dream that you are sitting, indicates your indecision and not knowing what you want to do with yourself in the near future. It may also suggest that you are just being idle and doing nothing.

To dream that someone is staring at you, suggests that you are hoping someone would look your way more often. It may also represent anxiety or pride.

Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream.   The dream is trying desperately to tell you something.  Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.

Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month, but whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.

The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled.  Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.  

Following are some tips in overcoming your recurring dreams.  

1. In understanding your recurring dream, you must be willing to accept some sort of change or undergo a transformation.

2. You must be willing to look within yourself and confront whatever you may find no matter how difficult it my be.

3. You must be able to look at the dream from an objective point of view. Try to get pass the emotional and reactive elements of the dream and get down to the symbolic images. Many times dreams are masked by elements that are disturbing preventing you to delve any deeper. This is a  defense mechanism that your unconscious may be putting up.

4. Be patient. Do not get discourage if these dreams still recur even after you thought you have come to understand them.

5. Learn to accept yourself truly and fully.

Often times, once you discover what your recurring dream is trying to tell you, these dreams will change or altogether disappear.