Help with best friend!!!!?

Question

my best friend(a girl) and i(im a guy) are very very close. we know each other for months now.

and every time she has a problem and gets angry with her boyfriend and refuses to talk to him. i would help talk to her, calm her down and get her to talk to her boyfriend again. even if i feel he is being a jerk which he is half the time, i still ask her to try and that people make mistakes. she listens.

and her boyfriend and her are swell again.

i do it because i care for her. but every time this happens i hate myself after that. she goes off spending time with him and im by myself again. i become nothing to her again, unimportant. and i feel angry at her.

Answer 1

i don't understand the question.  but i think you should tell her that her boyfriend is a jerk.  otherwise you she would probably never realize it.  i think you being nice to her, and calming her down is a good thing.  and i have a feeling that you are not unimportant if she is your best friend.

sorry if its no help.

Answer 2

I have a close friend, he's one of my bestfriends who I've known for about 10 years now. He's with a girl who I set him up with. They've had lots of fights and she has called me to sort the fights out.

I understand you feel as though she doesn't care, but deep down, she does. She'll appreciate you being there for her. That's why she comes to you and talks to you. Just think, if they ever broke up, she'll come to you about it, and if they're over for good, you'll still be her bestfriend. That's better than a S****y relationship!