Help with boy trouble?

Question

I have known this boy for ages, his photos on myspace look really fit, I met him today, and he isn't quite what I expected (looks wise). All my friends say he likes me, but I cannot imagine getting off with him at all. He's a really nice guy, should I take looks into account?

Answer 1

No you should take his personality more into account. Would you like it if a guy just wanted you for your body and not your mind? Don't judge someone by their looks, but by the content of their character. Once you get to know the person, and spend more time with them, you become more physically attracted to them.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Its totally your  choice , do u wanna a  guy who is good looking but do not care about your self respect and treats u badly  or an average guy who cares about u  and treats you like angel .Dont judge the book by its cover spend some time with him if he really connect with emotionally and understands u well then i don't see any reason why you shouldn't date him or have relationship with him Cheers .

Answer 3

Looks don't matter

Answer 4

It really depends on you. If you're going to toss your cookies every time he hugs you, maybe no.

PS also take into account his picture. Was it actually a photo of him, or someone else? If he put up a more attractive guy's pic, maybe stay away. No one likes a liar. It's different if he's just gained weight, though.

Answer 5

yes... woaaa u met him on myspace?

Answer 6

Looks count for the initial attraction, but they have nothing to do with the depth or longevity of a relationship.

What kind of person he is, how he treats you, if is is honest (or not), if he exhibits compassion for others - that stuff matters!

Answer 7

you have to take in the whole package. Looks, personality, how he is with you etc. then you can determine how it all is for you.

Answer 8

are you still attracted to his personality? if so, then ignore looks, they certainly arent everything

Answer 9

i think you have to be attracted to someone so i would not go there

Answer 10

Give me his myspace and ill tell you

Answer 11

You have to be comfortable

with your choices.  Date when

you don't want him, would that

be fair to you or him?

Answer 12

    Well, looks aren't everything you know.. What's most important is personality and that he likes you. As long as you like him and he likes you I think that's all that matters.

    And photos can make a person look different that what they really look like. Good Luck!

Answer 13

ummm....you met him on myspace? if you haven't even known him for real....i would stay away...starting with that. don't date someone you don't even know! you don't even know him personally if u have met him on myspace.......if you have known him personally. and he's really nice..then yeahh. who cares if he's not the greatest looking person. that's not going to matter in the long run. you're not going to fall in love with a person because of looks. trust me. from personaly experience. don't date anyone just because of their looks. if he's a really nice guy you will have feelings for him and then u will know. i say give it a chance.

Answer 14

just because he's nice doesn't mean you have to fancy him? if you do, then take a chance, nothin lost, but don't do it out of pity

Answer 15

No. It is more important that someone is nice than attractive.

Answer 16

If he has average looks then I guess give him a shot. But if you can't see yourself being with him, then don't

Answer 17

if you really like him his looks shouldn't matters

Answer 18

NO. Unless you can't stand the look of him you should look at his personality and demeanor not his looks first.

Answer 19

yes looks are important but what really matters is their personality,i know every1 says that but it is true, for instance, imagine if there was a really good looking boy but when he went out with you,you found out he was dating other girls?xx

Answer 20

I wouldn't cause you dont really find nice guys...trust me! =]

I say go for it get to know him better like in person and just chill with him and if you like his personality then thats another thing...

Answer 21

sure

Answer 22

yes make your move or you'll regret it  

Answer 23

can you say "shallow"...

Answer 24

Personally i am not really fussed about looks. The guys who are 'fit' and good looking are the ones that usually cause u trouble in later life. They get too much female attention and they are drawn away from there girlfriend by this.

If he has a good personality, and knows how to treat a woman, go for it.

Answer 25

of coarse not everyone posts photos they look good in, so maybe your not what he expected either, im sure he's very nice and i say go for it!

Answer 26

yes. Because you want to be happy. if you really like someone their looks will look great to you even if they don't look wonderful to everyone else

Answer 27

Well if you can't see yourself with him, just tell him that you don't like him...

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Answer 28

never judge a book by its cover. if i had done that 34 years ago i would nnot have married my husband 33 and a half years ago. he had an afro that stuck out about 6 inches. he wore army boots, blue jeans, blue jean jacket over a white tee shirt and had a knife strapped to his wrist. once i got past this i realized what a wonderful person he was. i would have missed out on a very special relatiobship if i ahd gone by his looks. at least give this guy and open-minded chance and forget about his looks.  

Answer 29

If you're just not feeling, then you're just not feeling him.  Be friends with him don't feel guilty.  When it's the perfect one- You'll KNOW it.

Good luck :)

Answer 30

no

Answer 31

yesssssssssssssssssssss but beware, he might trick you and touch you.