Help with confidence?!?

Question

I really have the worst confidence ever. I feel like i'm ugly and fat and gross. I've only had one boyfriend who was just using me and i feel like no guys like me =/ My friends just call me silly when i tell them how i feel, but of course they are going to say that. They're my friends! No one has ever said anything to me, but I just feel like I am SO annoying. All guys do is use me to make them feel better(not like s*x or anything but just talking, cause i guess i'm a big flirt? idk) and then they stop talking to me. How can I get my confidence higher?

Answer 1

don't focus on (in your opinion)worst features, focus on your best! like me, i hate my nose, so i do my makeup and hair to bring the focus on my eyes and lips! You don't need a boyfriend to feel like you fit in! be yourself, have fun. do what you want, wear what you want, DONT GIVE IN TO PEER PRESSURE!!! and if you feel like you're a tad pudgy, take up a fun sport, like skateboarding or a sport you enjoy!

Answer 2

Look in the mirror every morning and recite 5 things that you like about yourself. Or better yet write them down and stick it to the mirror you use the most so everyday you look in the mirror you feel fabulous!! Hope i helped!! Good luck

Answer 3

DON"T LISTEN TO THOSE PPL you better then those ppl and men when you get older you will learn that it is YOU that matters. If a guy doesn't apprentice u then DUMP HIS FAT ***. You will get into a relationship later or perhaps really soon when the guy respects you, and you will know how that feels. To get the confidence up you need to find better friends b/c friends don't do that...Real friends listen and care, no matter how low or high you are. Also get some alone time doing something that you only enjoy and are good at, or just enjoy and do it, and be happy doing it...or join a club, go to church, go somewhere to meet ppl. With the new school year try to go out of your to meet ppl, join the drama club, etc etc...

Answer 4

believe in yourself... that's it!

You don't get confidence from make-up or boyfriends.

It something you find when you BELIEVE in yourself.

trust me, im confident in myself :]]

Answer 5

i can tell you this now EVERYONE needs some confidence. and what will make it higher is even when you know everything is wrong try to act like it isnt cause your confidence is given off of you and if you dont seem happy and secure ppl will know that.you can tell.

and wear clothes tat make you feel good. get your self a make over when ppl are feeling down and need a little boost that what they do all the time. and its okay to flirt with guys but try to limit it cause you dont want to be just a flirt you also want to present ur self as girlfriend material. an its hard to do that when you are talking to this guy and than flirting with the next. and i mean to really boost your confidence do things you want to do, i mean if you think your fat than work out, you are the only one who can change your body so be the one to make it better :]

hope i helped