Help with feeling depressed for no apparent reason?

Question

gday everyone

i have a bit of a strange problem i feel depressed for really no apparent reason.. i have a girlfriend and shes wonder full the best person i have ever met in my life! she supports me very well with it. we have been going out for around 2 years now and the last 3 months my depression/ anxiety has gotten really bad. i don't know what to do i see a shrink atm and its not really helping. my personality is excellent and I'm a very positive person normally. i think it may have something to do with not having s*x for 2.5 of those months. do u think that's what it could be? also does depression cause thoughts to be almost misty in judgment because i feel like i need to get out of the relationship i don't know if that's a direct result of depression or what. but i love her more than ever the most i have ever in the last 2 years. when I'm not depressed i feel 100% happy in the relationship. can someone help me please! btw i am 17 turning 18 in a month. maby that's a factor as well.

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel. But I don't think its the lack of s*x thing.  Sorry.  But I would suggest switching therapists.  I had a horrible therapist and it just made me more anxious and depressed.  So I stopped seeing her and went to someone new and she has turned my life around.  I would try to do everything you can to fix this before it gets too bad.  

Answer 2

if you repent your sins and confess Jesus as your Savior He will be with you...you will be healed i talk about salvation , not about religion , churches etc

Answer 3

depression can occur for no apparent reason.  I was depressed on and off for 20 years for no reason I could name.  Medication is the only thing that worked for me and for the last 10 years my emotions have been extremely stable with none of the crippling lows I would endure 2 - 3 times per year.  It's down to not enough of the right brain chemicals and is no fault of anyone  - it's biological.  Don't stress over taking medication, I did and robbed myself of 20 good years.  You may need to try a few to find one that works for you.  I also wonder if u r as happy as u say in your relationship or if u r in denial about your girlfriend.  She may be a great person but just not the one for you.