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Help with friends (big mess)?

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Last year there was this boy at my school who asked out any girl who would pay attention to him (myself included, but i said no because i'd never met him before in my life) alot of my friends were friends with him but i'd never had any classes with him so i never talked to him. My friend jessica on the other hand got to know him through the school play and really liked him, so naturally she was happy when he asked her out. the only problem is a few weeks after he asked her out he came out of the closet about being g*y. jessica was understandably hurt and felt like she was used, so she no longer wishes to have any relationship with him, even tho he still wants to be friends. he's repeatedidly tries to appologize for using her and says he thought if anyone could make him straight it would have been her (which i thought was really sweet of him to say). she refuses to accept any of his appologies and has repeatedly made it clear that she wants nothing to do with him and she doesn't want to be friends with some one who would use her so easily. and to make matter worse other friends are calling her a homophobe because they think she doesn't want to be friends with him because he's g*y, which isn't the case at all, and this has cause a whole argument amongst are whole group of friends.

next week we're starting our freshmen year of high school and i really think we should start on a fresh slate but no one else seems to be willing to let the past be the past? if you were jessica would you forgive him? and if so what should i tell her to make her listen?

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  1. If I was Jessica..

    I'd feel really hurt, but after a while, I would forgive him.  You should tell her that admitting to being g*y isn't an easy thing to do.  Try to let her know that he's really sorry, and that being his friend isn't a bad thing.  Good luck !


  2. Yes, if I was Jessica I would totally forget he used me; I LOVE g*y people and I would want to stay friends with him! (:

    But in this case it's different.

    Just tell her that he is truely sorry for everything, and that the past IS the past and it's over and done with; just forget about it.

    Don't let something behind you effect something for the future.

    Everybody makes mistakes.

    Tell her this,

    tell her to look on the brightside, if they finally become friends again he can tell her what to and what not to wear(:

    :P idk.

    But I agree. You should all just start on a fresh slate,

    I'm starting highschool(freshmen) next week too and I'm gonna try and start over with relationships I've gotten in fights with.

    Well anyway,

    I wish you all luck!

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