Help with horses?

Question

ok i took you guys advice about forgetting that other girl but she wont leave me alone its like shes stalking me and coping me first i start wearing makeup to school then she does, i start wearing jeans to riding she does too, i had my lesson day on wednesday and told her nothing about it now shes telling me wednesdays are better before this she told me she hates riding on wednesday, any way there was this whole big show up in vermont and the whole barn went exept me and her now when i had my lesson today my trainer was saying she got to ride when they were gone , and they told me all riding was cancelled that whole week, ahe already took my wednesday so i switched to tuesday and thursday now she switched once again i didnt tell her anything, she also hates the horse she rides but she rides her in every lesson and im stuck on the horse that she told the barn she hates riding. then after she was done riding and i was putting my tack away she said awwwwwww hes so cute when two days ago

Answer 1

shes just jealous (;

yeah, she wants you to be bad and suck at riding

tell someone or talk to her yourself!!!

keep riding!

Answer 2

Well you have  a few options.  You could continue to ignore it, and be the bigger person, but make sure you get your riding time.  If it's not time for your lesson to be over, speak up to your instructor, say, 'i still have 10 minutes'.  Don't let her mom push you out of your time.  

You could  tell your parent to talk to her parent, but beware!  this could backfire your parent and her mom could become friends!! then you may have to see her MORE often, and not just at the barn.  That would really be uncomfortable.

You could confront the girl, say hey why do you switch your riding days every time I do?

I thought you hated wednesdays, you need to make up your mind.

or you could say I think its weird you keep changing your days, why are you changing them?

But if you don't want to talk to her, talk to your instructor about ensuring you get all of your riding time, but be careful not to say anything bad about her, as that could backfire, if she knows the instructor personally or is related to them, that would make you look bad, or make the instructor choose sides... so just stand up for the time thing, ask her why she keeps switching the days to match with yours, and see what happens.

Unfortunately, there's always someone who comes along like this, so if you can figure out how to deal with it by confronting the issue or ignoring it.  But remember you can never have too many friends.   But if you ask her why, then you'll find out the answer.

It could be that she's trying to be your friend and is making every effort the best way she knows how, it's not easy for some people to talk or meet people.

Answer 3

Hi,

Maybe you could try confronting the girl and asking why she is so wishy washy and acting so strange.

Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable when she makes hypocritical comments.  Tell her that it makes you feel bad when she has her mom ask your mom when your lesson is over considering it JUST started!

Talk to her, she is just JEALOUS of you! Maybe you ride better, are prettier, have a nicer horse, or are a better person.  She is JUST JEALOUS of you and complaining does nothing.

Just talk to her, tell her that she makes everything about her, and in reality it isn't about HER at ALL!

If you cannot talk to her your mother or your trainer would be the next best person to talk to.

Although I think that other people cannot handle your problems for you, only you can do that.

Only have your mom or trainer talk to her if you 100% CANNOT in anyway talk to her yourself.

Most likely if you tell your mom or trainer they will just tell her mom, which will get her in trouble and even madder at you.

So I would recommend talking directly to this girl.

You could also ask her why she is like your stalker! LOL...

That will scare her off!

Just say: "Why do you always copy me, everything I do, you do, are you copying me or are you my stalker?"

lol.... Her face will TURN BRIGHT red! lol..

It's kinda mean though! hehe...

Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

Don't stoop to her level. Talk to your instructor about this pronto. You can even talk to her about it. Talk to your instructor first, just so you don't get in trouble. I mean she might only be trying to be your friend.

Maybe say something like...

"I'm glad you like the way I live my life, but maybe it's time to grow up and start having a life of your own." Then just smile and say something like "Your horse is cute!" Then just walk away.

Hope this problem is fixed soon! I know how annoying it can get. Good luck!

Answer 5

one day when she copys you ask her what her problem is and why she always copy you. you will probably cut her down and she might stop bothering you. if she doesnt adress her with your problem and ask her to please stop.

hope this helps and good luck:)