Help with me and my dad?????

Question

hi im a 14 year old boy and for aabout 5 years ive hated my dad ive upset him and i have no love for him. Why is this when hes actually a nice man and i can only seem to pick out bad things about him which arent bad. We never really talk but he trys what should i do?

Answer 1

aww,sorry you feel bad but it's better you realized it now than later when things would have turned very ugly. there are some ways to rebuild broken relationships and i'll try mentioning some of them.

remember that parents love their kids dearly,no matter what so little changes will bring huge resolutions.

so you can start small, like showing appretiation for the things your dad has accomplished (at work,at a ball game or some thing),stop rolling your eyes when your dad talks to you,thank your dad for the things he does for you, try to stop getting in trouble  and do get the courage to tell him you love him.

and gradually things will be easier

you're on the right track already,so don't worry you'll be fine

good luck!

Answer 2

poor dad....T_T..

if i were you please forgive him..

he loves you...

but maybe he don't know how to show it to you...

love him.....

before the time ends...

you might not know when

is the time you can't see him anymore...

treasure time.....

treasure every moments of your life..

treasure every people that loves you...

Answer 3

START AGAIN.  Forget whatever it is that makes you hate him.  The man can't help it, we all got good and bad sides, all you've got to do is see the good side only.  After all, he gave you life, that's a good thing.  His heart must be breaking if he tries to talk to you and you don't seem to want to.  Give him a chance hein!

Answer 4

You are so lucky to have a Dad who cares, many don't!

You need to try to spend time with him doing something you both like...go   to a football game, or baseball game or something.  At a game you don't have to talk to each other much.  This will give you some fun together, and then it will be easier to start to talk with each other .

You have to makeup your mind that he is your Dad, your only Dad... and this is a good thing to get to know him.

Answer 5

I doubt it is this. . . But it could be that you are L*****n or bi and are disgusted by men.  

Answer 6

YOU SHOULD REALLY GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO LIKE HIM AND TALK TO HIM ... DONT WORRY ...

WHEN YOU HAVE THINGS IN COMMON WITH HIM YOU'D ENJOY TALKING TO HIM..

and rember most important people in this world is your parents with out them you would not really be here right now so ..

try repect them no matter what :)

peace out all the best for you x x  

Answer 7

i contacted my dad after 35 years, he slamed the door in my face,

your lucky theres always someone worse off than your self.

Answer 8

I worked with my dad for a week and wee pick up much better contact, try

to work with him you will get some money and get to know yout da, but not too long abot week or 2

Answer 9

Give him a chance - he sounds like he's trying.  He probably has no idea why you don't like him and I imagine that kills him on the inside.

Answer 10

listen hun u gto to talk to ya dad.i think u shud write him a letter and thats that.sometimes we wana say things but we get scared of how they look at us or wat they might say in return.u love ya dad and u can see dat in wat u have wrote.buy him a trophy for the best dad in the world and write wat u need to say.tell him how u been feeling whilst u not saying wat u need to.show him dat u glad hes ya father and dat will make him so proud of u.express ya self to the max and dont hold bak.watch how ya dad deals wid u.u will be is shining star forever.u need to tell ya dad the love u have for him....god bless and good luck to u hun.mwahxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx