Help with mother-in-law! *mature people only*

Question

Well my bf is incarcerated and has been for 2 yrs now, at first him and his mom would make me cry and i would go to the restroom so they wouldnt see me. Now he loves me more than ever and when i have been living with his mom we got into it alot! I have told my bf but he begs me to stay there until he comes out he feels that if i go it would ruin our relationship. I have 2 lil angelz with him and just recently she use to watch my kids while i go to work but now she dont. So my mom who lives a couple blocks away does. I work part time and when i get out i stay at my moms until 9:00pm and then go home.I have my own room and door where i stay at with his mom and when i got home two days ago she knocked and was saying foolish words like i am keeping the kids from her, i tried to tell her i am tired and to leave me alone and my son ran out i tried to get him and she stood there in my doorway and shouldered me i told her "man watch out" she was still talking i went to my room. I am getting assistance with des and am going to interviews trying to get a job. This lady is out of this world they way she acts. I dont know what do . My bf is getting out in dec 14th and we have to stay there 7 months more because he is going to be on parol. everytime i drive up i get a awful feeling in my heart knowing i have to be in the same house with her. I hate being there but i love my bf and know when he gets out things will be okay at least i have faith things will.

Answer 1

I also have a rude mother in law. Just smile ok relax. I also live with her for several years but i told my bf that were not well getting along so I force him to live separately from her mother. I told him that I don't want to fight back to his mother and that I don't want my child to see me fighting with her mother coz he might grow old with a bad manner. If you have fights with your in laws try not to do it in front of your children. If she keeps on nagging while the children is around let her do it. If the children are not watching you can tell her whatever you want to tell her. And tell her that she can visit your children in your house in that case she wont be tired in taking care of your kids.