Help with my aunt please?

Question

k.. so my aunt has 2 kids from 2 different fathers & shes really depressed because she recently just broke up with her boyfriend, and news to live with her parents since she has no money to get her own apartment. she quit her job because she was going too much depression, and she felt like she was going to get fired anyway.

but the thing is, she doesnt even take care of her friggin kids, i mean she sits down all day watching tv, going on the computer, and then at night she hangs out with friends to go to parties or some sh*t. i care about her a lot, and i want her to get better but she doesn't even try. i try giving her advice but just because im younger than her she laughs and thinks its cute! im 15 years old. i know a break up is hard, it must be. but seriously, quitting your job and not taking care of your kids? whats that gonna do? so my grandma takes care of the kids, but shes getting old she cant do this anymore. i try and help her but these kids are friggin spoiled by my grandparents, they dont know manners or anything.

its hard for all of us.

any advice on what to do? especially for my aunt?

Answer 1

Her parents need to knock her upside the head and knock some sense into her.  

Answer 2

talk  somebody

Answer 3

I don't know how old your aunt is but she is very very immature.

No way is she depressed otherwise she would not be able to go out partying all night. She is just lazy and because the grandparents are doing all her work she will continue to do so unless someone kicks her out and makes her earn a living. She choose her life. She could have used b/c and not had kids by various men. She does not have

any sympathy at all from me. I am a big believer in tough love and God helps those who help themselves. If I was her grandmother I would give her 30 days to get her c**p together and then out she goes. I would

also be calling social services and reporting her for child neglect.

Don't waste your tears or your fears on this woman even if you love her. She needs a really short sharp shock to get her to grow and act like a mother and an adult.

Answer 4

If there is a real problem, call the child protective services.  Maybe she'll shape up when she realises that she may lose her children and her WELFARE checks!

Answer 5

wow, that must be hard, you should try to have your mom or dad (whichever is the brother//sister) and see if they can get through to her.

good luck!

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