Help with my dad? ( dont know wat to do)?

Question

okay, so last night my dada was really grumpy. he came home and i said" hi" then hes like " hello: ( in this really mean grouchy voice) so then a couple minutes after i said " so, how was ur day?" ( really nicely) then he said" fine" in this mean voice again. i was really upset and just went upstairs to my room and havent talked to him since. i didnt even eat dinner or anything. so im really confused about this. i never did anything to him nothing. and i dont know what to do. like today when he gets home is he gonna be grouchy still? i dont know! i have a hard time talking to my dad about things, i dont know why but im always better talking to my mom then my dad. so what do you think i should do tonight when he gets home. do you think hes mad at me?

thanks....

Answer 1

if you're really concerned about him, why don't you just ask your mom to talk to him for you? Maybe he just had a bad day at work.

Answer 2

maybe he had a hard day ? just go talk to him.......

go ask him how he is and perhaps say he looks a little tired/overworked ?

and  tell him how you are. then slowly get him to talk about his day ?

Answer 3

Uhm. You should help both of your parents at this time.

When your dad gets home, hug him and say "hi dad, how was your day?"

Answer 4

I don't think he meant it.  I'm sure he's all stressed out right now, and he was grumpy with you without even thinking about it.  Try to act normal tonight, say hi and things, and see how it goes.

Answer 5

He mite have a lot on his mine and act like he dose not care but one thing is he is your dad and he loves you very much even if he dose not show it and you are very lucky to have your dad to talk to I lost my dad 5 years ago.  So just try to talk to him.   OK?

Answer 6

you and my wife are alike

you read too much in the tone of voice

I can sound mad when my head hurts or feet ether so don't be so thin skinned

Answer 7

Don't make this out of a big deal. U already said he was kinda grouchy that didnt mean it was toward u atleast he said something back instead of ignoring u. My dad stays grouchy I can neva have a  conversation with him witout him being fussy or defensive. So dont even sweat it its no big deal nex time u see him simply say hello and if he's still a little grouchy try 2 ask whats wrong n if its the same story and he wants his space give him just that sometimes people just have a rough day r even a rough week just imagine how many bad days u mightve  had that doesnt mean u are taken it out on people u love

Good Luck

Answer 8

No, I don't think that he's mad at you. He must've had a really bad day and when grown-ups have a really bad day, sorry honey, we tend to take it out on those we love the most. He really loves you or he probably wouldn't feel like he could be so open and real with you. Tell you what...if you are old enough why don't you make his favorite kind of dessert or something nice for when he gets home tonight. Maybe that would help. But, let him know that you are feeling bad and that you are upset because he is grumpy. Tell him in a nice way. But, be open to him. If you feel like you need help or don't want to be open with him go to your mom find out if everything is okay with him. My dad got on some new blood pressure medication and if we looked at him wrong he was upset...maybe that's what happened. (we soon got the medication changed!! :-) )

Answer 9

no, there's no reason for him to be mad at you & it sounds like this is something new.

he might be having a hard time at work. don't feel bad =)

but he sorta shouldn't give u an attitude either.

Answer 10

my dad is freakin died a month ago of a brain tumor, just be lucky you have one!!!

Answer 11

If he was angry and you only said hi. He probably isn't angry at you. Maybe he just had a bad day. Talk to your mother and find out what's wrong with him. Let her know how you feel and maybe she can convey that to your day. And can simply ask him if he is mad at you. You have nothing to lose if he is already angry.

Also, check yourself maybe you are part of the reason your relationship with your dad is stressed. Do you try to spend time with him? A little thing like an angry hello shouldn't make you so angry and insecure.

Answer 12

Stop being so dramatic with your life and accept the fact that everyone does not have a perfect day every day and he may have had a rough day.

Respect him as your father like you obviously expect to be respected.