Help with my friend! Gross!!!?

Question

Ok my bestfriend told me about a friend of ours and she did something reallllllyyyyy gross. She is totally strait.But she made out with two of her bestfriends like a french kiss! Also when she was watching a movie she started to kiss a boy she didnt even know!!! And she is always texting S****y text messages to girl and boys talking about s*x.

what to do??? she sits with us at lunch we dont wanna sit at lunch with a hoe!

Answer 1

Your friend is going through puberty, just like everyone else at your school. Maybe she's just a little more horny than you and your friends are, though. People handle their sexual feelings differently. Sometimes people end up letting their sexual feelings out and do whatever it takes to calm them; thus the S****y texts and the french kissing. It's like an outlet for them.

Just tell her how you feel. Tell her how gross it is to you and your friends and that you're uncomfortable sitting with her at lunch and just being around her in general. Be nice to her; don't be nasty or rude. Just be sincere and tell her your exact feelings. If she is a good, trustworthy friend she should understand pretty well.

-Dee

Answer 2

Depending how old you all are, this could be extreme, or, well, not so unusual.  If she's 15 or older, she's trying some stuff out, and you should tell her to cut the text messages cold turkey, but who she kisses, that's her business unless you make it yours.

If she's 11 or less, she may have been mistreated or molested to have such a general s*x interest so young.  That becomes a "go to an adult" issue.

If she's somewhere in between, and this is all a sudden change, well, the first poster said it best.  Some people hit puberty with a mighty roar.  Respect her hormones as biology (yours may or may not hit suddenly) but ask her to respect your limits, and warn her that if her reputation gets so extreme that it will reflect on the rest of you, you'll be seeing less of her.  

Again, this should not be about the kisses, so long as everyone was willing.  It should be about the lack of any filtering process.  You could always declare a "s*x talk free" hour at the lunch table, and she's welcome to sit there if she can stick to that.

Also, let her know that you'll be glad to have her back in a couple of months if her hormones settle down a bit, and she learns how to edit her urges and her texts.  And...mean it. It could have been any of you.

But if you all trash talk and send s**y texts, and you're cutting her out suddenly because you are too homophobic to handle the secondhand knowledge of a kiss or two, that's sort of an unfortunate over-reaction.  

Answer 3

tell her whatts going on.

or slowly pull away from her.

Answer 4

splash holy water onto her face and chant "devil child! devil child!"

Answer 5

Exactly what Dee said..shes a teenager and shes going through puberty. Personally I think you should leave her alone and get out of her buisness.

Answer 6

Girls that act like this do this to get attention. If you don't want to be friends with her then don't talk to her, you don't have to kick her out of your lunch table that is just mean.  

Answer 7

On the real, I think you should be straight up with her.

You cant be a fake and act like everythings

okay. You have to stand up and tell her

what she is doing is not right, and its making

herself look bad. But do this in a kind matter way,

you dont want to come off mean.. ya know?  

Answer 8

ewww. just talk to her and tell her you dont want to be her friend anymore. she will understand.