Help with old friendships?

Question

I need help to gain some old friends back. My first friend (Danny) while he was going out with a chick me and the chick used to write notes back and forth to each other cuz we were really good friends so he thought we were flirtin so he got pissed at me. My second friend (Tony) got mad at me cuz he really liked the same chick after her and Danny were over with and i wuldnt tell him any secrets about her that i promised her i wouldn't tell anyone so he got pissed at me. My third friend (Kevin)i talked behind his back cuz he did alot of **** to me so i decided to get even and now he wont talk to me. At some points of time i thought of actually making them pay for making my life a living h**l because i have some very good friends that can help me with stuff like that but i knew I'd never live with myself. So instead of going to extreme measure's I was hoping maybe someone here can help me?

So if anyone can help me please do i need all the help i can get. I know I'm a b*****d for doing that stuff but please give me real answers. Thank you very much.

Answer 1

Sounds like these guys are pretty immature...ask yourself why you want them back...your story is a little confusing, but in the big scheme of things, ask yourself what these friends have to offer you.  If you are just lonely and want some friends, it would be easy to think that someone could just collect their old friends, but they are old friends for a reason.  Have you thought about getting some new friends instead?  If these guys are really your best friends, you guys should just move on past the issues and decide that no chick will get in the way between you guys again.  Make some kind of boundaries between you and your friends concerning females, and then stick to them later when the time comes.  

Good luck.