Help with one of my sisters friend?

Question

so I'm 14 and my older sister who is 17 almost 18 is best friends with this guy that is so hot! (he just turned 16) I know its a Little wrong of me to like someone two years older then me so Its not like I would date him or anything. He is so sweet to me like at my 8th grade graduation that was in june he was there I guess because he know people that went to that school or something. He came up and hugged me and told me I looked really pretty and told me he would look after for me in high school. I thought it was so sweet I immediately fell for him, but sense I will never be able to date how can I talk to him, he seems really nice and seems like he would be a great friend but I'm really shy and don't really know how to talk to people. Can you please help me?

Answer 1

2 years is nothing u should totally go for it,dont be afraid if he says no then he says no and thats it nothin bad can happen at least u tried and u know that u didnt waste it,but since u say hes all sweet to you why not try maybe he likes u alot

btw my parents have an age difference of 10 years lol

Answer 2

I think it is a bad idea to go after this guy (romantically). First of all, it sounds like he just wants to be you friend (nothing more) and is looking out for you. I think "just friends" is a good idea for you. Next time he comes over you could try hanging out with him and talking to him. You could ask him about his interests or if you are watching TV, talk about the program. You could also ask him what he wants to do when he leaves school.  

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