Help with parent issues please...?

Question

Not only was my sister raped,but my parents keep on getting into these huge fights,and I dont know what to do. i am the youngest but it feels like I have all of the weight on me! I dont want my parents to get a divorce. My dad gets angry easy and my mom is so helpless. He might be abusing her when we dont know. They think they are secretive. And im just scared of outcomes. Help please!

Answer 1

Your sister should seek for help, I don't think that it would be a good idea to go to her parents because they probably won't believe her, I guess that just depends on the type of parents you have.  If she knows who raped her she should definitely go to the authorities.  And as for your parents, if they are not getting along, then it probably be best for them to split up because it would probably be worse if they are together and they are always fighting and he might be abusing her. Im sure they still love you and will both be there for you!

Answer 2

well i dont think you shold of said that rap word on the web that is conferdetional

Answer 3

ok I dont know how old you are but you cannot put all of this on your shoulders. I understand that it is hard. First, I would say just be there for your sister. She is going through a lot, so be a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen when she needs it. Let her know that you are on her side♥ As for your parents, sweetie, you CANNOT prevent a divorce. You simply cant. Sometimes, things just dont work out between two people. You can still love your dad and your mom, even if they are nto together. Dont assume that she is being abused, unless you have physical evidence. Try talking to a school councelor. I know it doesnt sound good, but it really will help sooo much and they will have so many more answers than I have. PLus, they are confidential if you want them to be♥

Answer 4

you really need to tell somebody whats happening...a teacher you trust or a friends parent somebody...you cannot sit there and do nothing becaues your only hurting yourself...tell somebody that you trust and will handle this

Answer 5

Calm down and talk to your parents or a social worker at your school (never talk to a guidance counselor because they'll just say "and how will that effect your schoolwork) also, If your parents get a divorce, look at the bright side! You get 2 christmases, 2 rooms, and your parents will stop fighting... sure it hurts, but believe me when i say it'll be ok... I've been in a similar situtation so i hope this has been of help!

Answer 6

Oh sweetie, Im so sorry, Back in my time, Parents never got divorced. Im sorry about your sister. Its ok to be curious, your a wise girl. Tell them they are harsh Jr's.

Im in the new generation, Its a tough little little world

Answer 7

sounds stupid but its not have a family meeting to see where every one stands or what place their in,if they really want the family to fall apart tell them all how u feel brake down if u have to but its your way out even if it doesnt work....runaway in your own little world...

Answer 8

girl you can control what your parents do and dont do......  i am in a similar situation.  you just have to accept that you be the best you you can be and dont worry about what they do.  they both love you and splitting might end up being the best thing...i hope your sis is okay..that rough

hang in there!

Answer 9

You need to talk to someone about this, a school counsler or a parent of a friend.  

Answer 10

you need a family therapist or talk to a counselor..

Answer 11

i think your parents are having problems it might not work out for them but you should try and talk to a family member you trust and be there for your sister and hopefully she will be there for you aswell im sure your guardian angel will be watching over you and helping you when i feel down i always write to my angels you will be surprised how much it helps try it x

Answer 12

I am sorry to what happens but you should consider talking to someone so they can help you and your family. Don't keep everything bottled up inside it makes matters worse. I hope you can get everything sorted out.