Help with self esteem?

Question

people always tell me im really pretty but i dont see it.

i think im plain and boring, how can i raise my self esteem?

xxoo thanks

Answer 1

I know how you feel.  I feel the same way sometimes.

Stand in the mirror naked.  First, think of all the things about your personality that you like and why, then write them down.  Then look at your body and find at least 2 things that you like and why, write those down.  Then remind yourself everyday that you are beautiful inside and out and just because people may say things about you, it doesn't mean that there is any truth to it or that they aren't just insecure themselves.  

If you think you're boring, think of ways to have more fun.  I don't know how old you are, but call up a friend who you have had a lot of fun with in the past.  Tell them to come over and start a water balloon fight with them as soon as they come up to your door.  Throw a party with music, food and your closest friends.  Just be creative.

Answer 2

girl your beautiful then dont b afraid 2 believe it chall if they tell you are then you are

Answer 3

Believe what people think...if people tell you it often they are probably right. You could try adding a tad bit of makeup, getting a new haircut, and some clothing changes,  but only enough to enhance your natural beauty.

Answer 4

it will come in due time hun. I didnt feel good about myself until after i graduated high school and went on to college. Dont worry. Everything is going to be alright. Try looking in he mirror and picking out the things you really like about yourself. Never wish you had somebody elses nose or eyes or things like that because then you wouldnt be you. If there are things you dont like that you can change (clothes, hair etc) then change them. Its all part of learning about who you are.

Answer 5

Maybe do something you wouldn't normaly do like try a new makeup shade or color your hair~ do something that makes you feel unique and special!

Answer 6

look in the mirrior.

Answer 7

Im glad you aren't a conceited person and feel that way, but you shouldn't be down on yourself. Be positive about everything and look at the bright side, and if you stay that way yous hould be fine

Answer 8

self esteem is called SELF esteem. no1 can help you raise your self esteem, only you. if you feel that you are plain or boring, you can try living yourself up. maybe buy new clothes or do your hair in a different style.