I need some advice. I have a 13yo stepdaughter who is currently failing all of her core classes in school (Math, English, Social Studies, and Science). We have been grounding her every weekend when she is at our house and we even took her cell phone away and nothing seems to be helping. We get no help from her mother and her mother will actually make up lies to try and cover for her. She tells us she is up studying with her every night for tests and my feeling is that if she was doing that much studying she would not have an "F" for her grades. The teachers are getting fed up with her "no care" attitude, as are her Dad and I. Her dad says we should just let her fail the 7th grade and repeat it next year. I on the other hand think it is going to hurt her self esteem and I think we should keep pushing. I try to say encouraging words to her like we know you can do so much better with these grades and I try to give her studying tips. I feel like I am fighting a losing battle here.
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