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okay i dont no what is wrong with me like i am so sad when i get into trouble and c**p but then i dont think about anything so i get into a lot of trouble im either like zoned out doing nothing or im like hyper and getting kicked out of class i dont no what my prolbem is im 13 years old constantly getting writting up i always lose or forget things im never organized i have these times where i just go crazy like everyday i will be talking ot my mom and i will just be like shutup maybe if your home you would no i scream at adults at least 3 times a day i no not to but when i do i just forget this has been going on for a while anyideas what this is and please no haters

Answer 1

Sounds to me like classic dyslexia or ADD / ADHD. I'm not a doctor or educational psychologist, but I've been working with kids your age with these problems for years in an EBSD school in England (UK). EBSD means Emotional, Behavioural, Social Difficulties. ADD or ADHD stands for Attention Deficit Disorder or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. This disorder can cause impulsiveness and many other problems. Dyslexia = difficulties in writing or reading, it also means you can be unorganised, unable to follow a string of instructions or be forgetful. Dyslexia goes hand in hand with ADD / ADHD. Sorry if I'm telling you things you already know.

Check out the OAASIS website for more info, and ask your parents to look. If they are busy, print it off and leave it for them to read.

The website is: www.oaasis.co.uk

Be patient and don't presume you have these or any other disorder, I am not a doctor and can not make a diagnosis.

Anyways, you need to speak to your teacher, your parents and / or a counsellor or other adult you trust about your problems. Maybe they haven't considered that you may have a disorder. Ask to be referred to your doctor or an Educational Psychologist. These people can assess you professionally and diagnose or explain any disorders you may have. It may be that you are just having typical teen trouble if these are recent problems, but if they have been around a long time, it's time to ask questions.

Good Luck, stay calm. :)

Answer 2

I don't hate you.  There is no reason to hate you.

Your behavior could be a couple of things.  We will start with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) or ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder).

ADD is when your attention is every where, but where it should be.  When you are suppose to be listening to your teacher you mind is off thinking about other things.  You can't focus in on what's going on in class.  You get distracted by the other kids in class or most anything else. That's why you are not listening to what the teacher is saying.  You can't.  It's like you said, you're zoned out.

ADHD is the same as ADD but with hyperactivity which is when you can't sit still in your chair, you always have to be moving around, so of course you teacher is going to get upset because you're disturbing the rest of the class.  So you get kicked out of class.

You shouldn't be kicked out of class.  You have no control over your hyperactivity.  If you're zoned out it's because it's all to much for you.  It's just too much work for your brain.  Or you just don't have the motivation to do anything.  

The no motivation and being zoned out plus not having your things in order and forgetting a lot is are other things  that go along with ADD.

When you start yelling and telling your mom to shut up and turns into a screaming match just out of the blue when you were fine a few minutes before that is called mood swinigs.  It means just like the words say mood swings.  Your mood will be fine one minute and ugly the next.

The other possibility is Bipolar.  This one is hard to explain.  So at this point what I'm going to tell you to do, is talk to your mom and dad about what we just talked about.  I'm very sure that you are not understanding what I am saying.  It is too much to understand.  

I will tell you this, all this can be treated and you will feel like a different person.  That would be for the better.  You will have to be tested (NO PAIN) so you can be fixed.

If it makes you feel any better, I to have ADD and mood swings.  My whole family has just about the same as you.  It runs in the family.  So we are all on par with each other and I include you in our group.  ADD, ADHD, Bipolar,Mood Swings, Anger.  So you are not alone.  

If your mom and dad know about this and your teachers know about this, then something should be done about it.  They all can see there is a problem.  If everyone knows, then you need they should explain it to you so you know about yourself.

If you can make a copy of this do it and show your parents.  You can talk to the school counselor too.

Wishing You Well

Answer 3

Beside ADHD,you may have aspergers syndrome.Do you have problems with making friends?Or problems being insocial situstions?Are you overwhelmed by to many people,and to much noise.Do you hate to be interupted when you are doing something?Do you have problems multi tasking?Do you prefre to be alone,or need alone time?If so you may have aspergers syndrome.At any rate a good diet,and multivitamins and mineral suppliments can help.B-complex 100 caps.Essential fatty acids.Check out the book Perscription For Nutritional Healing.Omit processed foods from your diet,eat only natural,whole foods,nothing artificial.Chemicals in processed foods can aggravate your symptoms.Take Care and good luck.

Answer 4

Ask your mom to see a therapist. Talk it out with someone. If you have an issue they can help you. You also have social workers at school that may help you too. Ask to meet them so you know who they are if you need them throughout the day. It is great that you notice a problem. Let the adults around you help you work it out.

Answer 5

i agree.  you should talk to your parents about getting a therapist for you to talk to.  i admire that you have the courage to actually recognize these behaviors and admit to them without passing the blame.  i commend you.  while you're trying to search for help on the other end, for yourself, try keeping a mood journal.  track your mood morning, noon, and night.  give yourself of rating exp.  1 to 10; 1 = bad and 10 = very good.  note why you gave yourself that rating.  also, you can track in your mood journal the times you become angry or have an outburst;  try to remember what caused it.  then think how you can prevent the cause, or deal with the cause differently then having an outburst (or any other behavior)

continue to remain open to help.  i'm proud of you for that!!! :) :)