Helpp I'm so nervous about highschool! I have to wear a scarf (religion) and will people talk to me?

Question

With all the terrorism stuff going on, (I don't support that by the way!!) I'm afraid of going to high school with a scarf on. Will people make fun of me? Will I make friends? This is my first year wearing a scarf..I have a lot of friends and they know about it and accepted it, but will people be less likely to talk to me? I'm a normal teen, I''m friendly and funny, but I've never worn a scarf to school and I'm so nervous about it. Wold you befriend me if I was your classmate? Or make fun of me? Please answer honestly!

Answer 1

One of the things I learned many years ago was that some people will judge you on silly things. I was one of those 'long haired guys' when it was not popular with the school district, and the teachers got the other students to harass me. It wasn't easy, but a lot of water has passed under that bridge since then, and I feel that I am a much stronger person now because I kept to the courage of my convictions.

An honest answer is that you do not control how other people perceive you except as a result of your actions, demeanor, and your willingness to extend yourself as a friend. Some more mature kids will not care one way or the other, and some will be cruel. What you CAN control is how you react to it: build up support groups, join a club (I was on the drama club, and OH BOY did I get grief about THAT!) and set a good example of solid citizenship.

High school is full of pressure, but once you graduate, you have another 60 or so years to live: are you going to let 4 years of your life dictate how you spend the rest?

Best of luck as you embark on your journey.

Answer 2

there's always gonna be stupid people that are disrespectful about it, but you'll have to get used to it. just remember that a lot of people aren't angry about it, they just don't understand. the people who will be worth being friends with, won't care at all. just be talkative and outgoing. let people know you want to be their friend.

Answer 3

i wouldn't care but i know people who would hate you

Answer 4

Sorry to say it, but there will probably be some people who are mean to you or make fun of you because of the scarf. But don't let that get you down, some people are just closed minded and ignorant. If you are friendly and funny then I am sure you will find some great friends in h.s! Enjoy it and have fun!

Answer 5

yes i would but i understand how it make you makes u uncomfy

Answer 6

I would be your friend no problem, my boyfriend is from Iraq and people say the stupidest things and now my neighbors are starting to say stuff, point of the matter is that if a person really likes you for who you are they won't let ignorance, race, terrorism or even a really juicy rumor stop them from being your friend.  Just be very care because some people actually take precious time out of their day to teach hate right here in San Diego grown men are jumping on women and children just because they're from the Middle East, it makes me very sad to see and hear things like that.  

Answer 7

If most of your friends have accepted the fact that you have to wear a scarf then thats fine. If people judge you by the way you look instead of getting to know you and your personality then they're not worth being friends with. Just feel confident and if you truly believe in your religion then don't let anyone stand in the way of what you believe. I wouldn't make fun of you and i would be your friend.

Answer 8

Assalam o alaikum sister. Let me first congradulate u on ur decision.

The answer to your question actualy lies with u. First ask yourself that why have u decided to do hijab. If u are doing it for the sake of Allah only and u have a firm belief that what u r doing is right, and for no other reason, then trust me, no person on earth can make u feel bad abt it. This life is a test, and its not always easy, so pray to Allah to give u enough strength to face each test with bravery. May Allah reward u for the step u r taking, in this world and the hereafter, and guide u further along the right path :)