Her response after your advice?

Question

You know a very shy, soft-spoken young woman who has not been having luck with dating and finding a boyfriend. She's very sweet and kind but very shy. She's tried internet dating for awhile, but hasn't had much luck. You told her that she needs to break out of her comfort zone and just go out and go up to guys. And yes, it may be embarrassing and uncomfortable but she should just get out there. In response, she said "but that's the step I can't take..."

What would u think after she tells you that?

Answer 1

I would think that she is nervous about asking guys out, and letting them know that she likes them.  As a guy who is into dating; I'm having a really hard time with this myself.  I had my heart broken so many times.  I was nervous to ask a girl out this week, but managed to do it.  The answer I got wasn't the answer I wanted, but as the least; I asked her.  

There are people who want to ask other people out, but some people are nervous to.  It's nervracking to think about getting rejected.  The thought of getting rejected is what makes people nervous about asking other people out to date.

Answer 2

I think that it may have been what she thinks. think about it if a person is about to bungie-jump for the first time they "can't do it" but with some more encouragement they might have the trill of a lifetime.