Herpes & stretchmarks question for women?

Question

I am a man who lost quite a bit of weight when I reached 22 i now have lots of stretchmarks on my sides and stomach, im even too embarrased to get my t-shirt off at the beach, i am currently using bio oil to reduce the appearance of them also I have gential herpes. I know its both an awful thing to have, I meet women with lovely bodies and looks but always feel i am out of their league because of this, im def gonna get some tattoos to cover my stretchmarks up, but am at my whits end cause I feel I cant talk to women intially about my problems when meeting them whats the best thing to do?

Answer 1

have confidence in yourself, always remember you are unique and portray all of those unique qualities to us and no matter what you will be so s**y to us,  

Answer 2

As far as the stretch marks... they will never completley fade, but they will become less noticable over the years.  Tattoos isnt a bad idea if you really cant stand them.  

Unless a woman is vain and ridiculous I higly doubt your stretch marks will be the first thing she sees- or even a reason not to date you if she does.  

As far as the herpes... many people have herpes, as Im sure you know 1 in 5 in U.S has it.  Me and my boyfriend both have herpes, and we also take a medicine daily to supress break outs.  Just because you have herpes shouldnt mean that your dating life is over.  It just makes picking a partner and making sure you are very safe much harder.  

Stretch marks and herpes, while hard to deal with, are minor flaws when it really comes down the right partner.  And dont think that the second you meet someone you have to blurt out you have herpes!!!!

Answer 3

Dont talk to them about your problems until you become closer to them.  You should never discuss personal problems until the person is close to you.  

Answer 4

70% of women have stretch marks, so thats natural.

and about the herpes, i think you should tell the woman upfront.

then you wont have to worry so much.

=]

Answer 5

if you want free games and consoles and stuff go to this site please http://www.rewards1.com/index.php?referr...

Answer 6

Well you should get medical attention on ur genital herpes and get it controlled! About the stretch marks it shouldn't matter I mean no1 is perfect, beauty is skin deep! I believe becuz of ur condition u have low self esteem just be yourself and approach women with no cheesy pick up lines those are so played out! When u meet a women u think u want 2 have a relationship wit u should talk 2 her about ur condition and tell her that u are under treatment if u are! I'm sure a women wouldn't appreciate it if u lied 2 her about having ur herpes under control and  she ended up wit herpes herself!