Hey, im very non-social. And I hate it. I'm trying to be more social but I dunno how. Help?

Question

I'm sorta shy. I just wish I was more social is all. I just don't know how to be more social! Thats why i've come to this to look for awsners. It's not that i'm judgemental over people or how they look, i'm just plain out shy 8P

Answer 1

Are you shy and get nervous and forget what to say? Or do you find yourself being judgmental of others?Why do you feel you are anti social?

Ok well the best advice is to just be yourself be proud of yourself  go out meet new people. Smile find your niche when you find that get involved in it and find people with common ground. The key is loving yourself and being confident! Don't worry about what people think it doesn't matter. Just have fun say whats on your mind don't hide it unless its absolutely necessary like it would hurt someone else's feelings. Be proud of you and that should help you to be more social.

Answer 2

same problem for many years... try to use humor when u talk to people, they will  like u more which makes ur brain  more social...

Talk to ur self in the mirror it usually helps me... (It helps with expressions when u talk to people...-which makes people want to talk to u...)

Answer 3

Don't try and be who you're not.

If you aren't comfortable in social situations, or don't like being around allot of people at the same time then remember: you don't have to.

There are lots of people that have the same issue; they can't stand the loud annoying jerks and just want to have normal, nice friends. It may help you to find people like this and just talk to them. You never know who you may meet!

If you're not comfortable going up to people, let them come to you. You can start friendships that last a lifetime if you just open yourself up a little...

I hope you find a place where you are happy being who you are. Good luck and happy hunting!

Answer 4

limit computer use to every other day. Force yourself to do something else.. anything else.. that involves other people. You could go shopping, hit the local pool, join a club, find something to do.

Answer 5

Shyness is about feeling uncomfortable or judged by others. If you can work on not thinking about that and focus on others and what is going on around you that will help.

Try and set yourself attainable goals... such as going to a store and saying hi to one stranger. Then up the anty on the next one... one sentence. Keep building on a goal to reach the level you want to achieve.

The first step is figuring out what you want - to have one friend or 100? Figure out what or who you want to be and work towards that. Overcoming shyness comes with confidence and comfort. Take it slow and don't get onto yourself... there will always be tough times and set backs that could get in your path.

Answer 6

I Used To Be Really Shy

~Say Hi More

~Start Conversationz even About Tha Smallest Dumbest Thingz

~SMILE

AND BE U

I WUD TALK TO U. LOL

Answer 7

Smile and be confident. People are attracted to people who smile (more likely to become friends with you). Approach people who you think you would enjoy talking to.