Hey I need help Im a woman trapped in mans body ?

Question

Im having a very hard time with this cuz I know deep down inside Im really a girl and Im scared that ppl will dis own me and not accept me 4 who I am , I dont know what to do , and I really need to come out but I dont know how , Im always buying womens clothes cuz it just really makes me happy and it really feels good when I wear em . I dont know how to continue this. I need help and honest answers please , its really eatting me a live inside , I just wanna be who I really am inside and thats being a girl HELP , I also have the mind of a girl

Answer 1

Very frankly speaking, your feelings are very natural. It is an attraction toward an opposite s*x. There is nothing unusual. If you have a friendship with opposite s*x, your present actions will serve as a services to your friend. In this action you will be having more pleasure.

Of course, wearing of dresses of opposite s*x too is a part of fanaticism.

In my opinion you may have a friendship with a girl first and then explore the rest of the thing. I am sure you will enjoy a great with no change of your status or attitude.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

Step #1 is speaking with a gender therapist:

http://www.DrBecky.com/therapists.html

They can help you sort things out and decide what to do.

Educate yourself:

http://www.LynnConway.com

http://www.TSRoadmap.com

Answer 3

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transexual

http://www.ehow.com/how_2188648_live-as-...

http://www.jenellerose.com/help.html

http://www.lauras-playground.com/mtf_tra...

http://www.dglenn.org/me/trans.html

I can't imagine it'll be an easy decision...

But you have to ask yourself if you are able to continue living how you are or are you strong enough to live how you feel is right? Its not something you do tomorrow, its a process that can take years. I'm sure the slow process will help your family cope. Coming out as transgender isn't always an automatic 'disownment' issue, but you know your family best and how they might respond..  At least look up psychologists in your area that specialize in transgender patients and talk with them. That will definitely help and give you a starting point.

Hopefully one of those links will help you. Good luck. :)

Answer 4

it's okay! just be yourself! go ahead buy the girl clothes, grow out your hair, wear makeup!

it's fine! and if people don't want to accept you for who you are then they are pathetic dumb@sses and need to get lives, and try making g*y/bi/L*****n friends they're way more likely to accept you

good luck! (:

Answer 5

Get a s*x change ?

Answer 6

Depending on how old you are, can you find a good gender therapist in your area and go from there?

I hope other responders will be able to give you more in-depth info/advice. There are several who regularly answer questions such as yours on yahoo answers. In the meantime, I just wanted to let you know you are not alone and will be okay. Hang in there.

Answer 7

Mmm, be who you are. You're not living in this world to live up to people's expectations right? If people don't want to be friends with you after you come out, they're not the right people to hang with nor do they deserve to be a part of your life. If you want to express yourself, go ahead. No one's gonna stop you, but you should be able to accept their reactions. If they're close-minded about it, forget them. Move on. They'll just make your life more depressing and make you feel worse about yourself. You'll meet great people in life one day and they'll understand you and accept you for who you are.

Best wishes, Gloria.