Hey everybody,I need your help again!?

Question

I am in Texas with the crappy weather and my husband left me and our kids by ourselves because of a stupid argument.He left me without transportation and my son has not been feeling well today and he is prone to febrile seizures.My husbands sister lives 10 miles away,my family is hours away,there is not a taxi service here and I'm really depressed! I did not start this argument and he says that when he comes back,he is packing his stuff and leaving.He has done this before,and I am really tired of this c**p! I'm here with nothing to do and he is partying! Can anybody give me some encouraging words? This is a serious situation.Thanks for all your help! P.S.I am 32 and this is my second marriage.

Answer 1

marriage is not an answer it is a question. do you have the will to be married? if he doesn't then you can do nothing about him. at that point it is all about you and your kids. your dreams are broken. live the life you have. it will be worth it and rewarding as well. now if i could only take my own advise...tmm

Answer 2

Change the locks before he gets back!

If your son needs help, are you in an area serviced by 911?

Good luck, but get rid of this loser...he's not much of a man.

Answer 3

this time when he leaves don't take him back. i can't believe how selfish he is being. you deserve a real man who will treat you with respect, not a little boy!

Answer 4

No one can judge someone. But God sees everything, and sees that you have a good heart. Keep it up, **** your husband, he doesn't deserve all the hard work you put into everything. Know that someone across the world is proud of what you do, cause I am.

Answer 5

You picked another winner huh? Sorry to say this, but he's a t**d and you'd do better off without his temper tantrums. At least if you're alone, you don't have to deal with his immaturity and you won't be on pins and needles waiting for him to surface again!  Good luck.

Answer 6

Get rid of him and do it on your own. It sounds like you're doing it on your own anyway. He is irresponsible and selfish.

Answer 7

Just a thought...it does not matter what it was about but who started the argument?  Did he possibly push your button so it would be your fault he HAD to exit into playland?

When he comes back make him keep to his word.  Tell him you didn't want him to add LIAR to his list of personal accomplishments.  It's best to pack his stuff for him so he gets ALL of it the first time.  Stack the boxes on the porch or in the garage.

Don't point a gun at me unless you plan on squeezing the trigger, it's insincere.  The same is true with threats and especially the same old boring BS ones.  Brown it or get off the pot.

btw...you have something to do.  You have children to raise to be nothing like their father and you have a computer and internet connection that will virtually take you out to broaden that same old horizon you see out your kitchen window EVERY time you do the SAME darn dishes.  Consider the choices our mothers with no computer and internet, our grandmothers with outrageous long distance rates that started a block before the person they would call and our great grandmothers with no phone at all.  I suspect their only outlet was to scream into their pillow.