Hey guys..Please help me,,Its about my mother and me..?

Question

Whenever my mother complaints or worry about a particular thing,I try to make her understand things by asking logical questions,,But she never stops worryingAnd the worst thing is she always accuses me of questioning her...I do that only to make her realise whats right by making her think over those questions..She never bothers about what i speak ..She keeps sticking to her views..

She says that NO GIRLS WILLL LIKE QUESTIONING OR REASONING AND THAT GIRLS WILL HATE ME FOR THIS ATTITUDE.GIRLS PLEASE GIVE UR OPINION ON THIS.Guys..IS it real that girls dont like opposing their views or debating with them as to whats right and whats not...PLEASE GUYS AND GIRLS say me whether theres something wrong with me so that i can ment myself....I get hurt everytime my mother says that I can never move smoothly with any other women because of this "LOGICALLY SPEAKING ATTITUDE " of mine.

A very SIMPLE INCIDENT that occured today..My mother said that NOWADAYS girls expect just love from their guys.I replied to that by asking her what girls expected in the past ,,the same love ..IS there something wrong in what i said.. She immediately said that if U reply to another girl like this,she would runaway from u...I often get deoressed due these comments.PLEASE GUYS HELP Me ..IF theres something wrong in me, please say that to me ..I am ready to change myself or should my mother change her attitude

Answer 1

Well, I don't want to disrespect your mother but she is incorrect.  Only pigheaded stubborn people will not like questioning.  Intelligent nice people will embrace your right to your opinion and will always be open to the possibility that someone could prove them wrong. The type of girls she's talking about you just need to steer clear from. She is right about a lot of girls but not every girl. My husband is constantly challenging me and I respect him for it. How boring would it be to have a mate who just agrees with everything I say. What room would that leave for growing on my part? You love your mother as you should but when she passes those huge assumptions by you just nod and get out of that conversation as quick as you can. Did your mother dominate your father or whoever she has been with because she seems like the dominating sort. Again no disrespect intended. I have plenty I could say about my parents opinions. Good luck