Hey guys ! can you do me a little favor ? i need a story about mother and daughter conflict .?

Question

kindly needed guys , hope you can answer my question as soon as possible . Godspeed !

Answer 1

my mom never let me see my biological dad or ever told me who he was or any thing about him except it wasn't my business and it didn't concern me and that she loved him but she let my so called step dad beat on me all the time than last year i found out the guy who's supposed to be my real dad died two years ago and my stupid mom sees nothing wrong with this  

Answer 2

well i have a conflict with my mother because when my parents divorced i went with my dad and have always been i guess on his side my 2 sisters stayed with my mom well younger so had no choice at the time my mom today still holds a grudge by the way this was 20 years ago also she was not a good mother to me she was only 15 when she had me and so we had a lot of rough times and she hates being reminded of those days when she wasn't such a perfect mother i think she resents me at this point we talk less and less i love my mother and i know she loves me and i miss her hope it helps

Answer 3

My mother and i used to be incredibly close... best friends if you will. But soon enough, i turned 10, and she started preparing for me being a teenager. She started treating me differant, ordering me around more, yelling at me, grounding me for the smallest thing, guilt trips... the works. So this went on for years until i turned 12 and she really turned up the heat. I couldnt take it anymore. So every time she yelled at me, i yelled back, every time she guilt tripped me, i guilt tripped her, and so on. Well one day my mom saw my report card and saw that i got a D in english. She got really mad, and started to ask me like a million questions about grammar and such. It was making me so mad! Then i tried to control my anger but all i could do to keep from yelling at her was to storm up to my room. So i run up to my room and plop down on my bed. All the anger i was carrying around for years, just exploaded and it felt like my heart was ripping into tiny little pieces. It hurt so much that i started to scream as loud as possible. my mom ran up stairs and banged on the door and screaming for me to unlock it. i was so scared of what they would do... they had been hitting me lately and i was frightend. So i grabbed a tennis raquette for protection. I slowly unlocked it and she came bursting in. Scared, i hid in the corner sobbing. I just got so angry with her... i started screaming "I HATE YOU! YOU NEVER LISTEN TO ME ANYMORE! I WANT MY MOTHER BACK! I HATE YOU!" she just stood there staring at me, my dad heard the comotion and came running up stairs to deal with it. He scared me even more, when i saw him i sceamed and ran to the other side of my room, he came at me and dragged me up by my arms. Then he started to scream at me "YOU WANT SOMEONE TO HATE YOU! HUH?! YOU WANT SOMEONE TO SCREAM AT YOU?!" and i just twisted out of his arms, and attempted to run out of my room but i tripped over a box and fell to the floor. He kicked a pair of pants in my face and i grabbed the box and threw it at him trying to get him away but he caught it. he dragged me up again and put me in a headlock then dragged me downstairs. i bolted for the door and went into the garage. about 1 min later my mom came outside, who had just been watching the whole time, we started to shout again. eventually she grabbed my hair and pulled me inside. I then just went into the bathroom and stayed there for most of the night. ever since then i havnt been able to look at either of my parents the same way... i havnt had a real conversation with my dad in a year, and my mom hasnt changed at all.  

Answer 4

The mother/daughter relationship undergoes added conflict and strain in the adolescent years because the mother is the primary role model and teacher of cultural values. Margaret Notar and Susan McDaniel wrote an article in the journal Adolescence describing the mother/daughter relationship as "...often conflictual, particularly during their daughter's adolescence, and [it] manifests many of the ambiguities and confusions about the social meanings of womanhood and motherhood." They further note two studies, Flax in 1978 and Fisher in 1981, that report that adolescent daughters hold the most negative attitudes toward their mothers and that the daughter's quest for autonomy, often manifested sexually, is not commended by the mothers. Girls are taught to be attractive and caring, not to outshine men intellectually ... and to look for approval" (p. 46). Nice quotes Gilbert and Webster: "Each mother has to transmit the rules of femininity to her daughter to help them survive in the world as she knows it" (p. 83). These two teachings, dependency and a code of behavior, contribute to conflict and to making the separation more difficult.