Hey i already have to boys one is 16 months and the other one one month and i dont want anymore ?

Question

so on next wednesday i go into the hosptial to get Tubal ligation have any one had it done

Answer 1

I have not had it done but i have had several people that i know have this done and they are extremely depressed when they are done. You may feel like you never want children again, but down the road when they are older or you have a new marriage or anything you may want to have children again and that procedure is very permanent. I would seriously reconsider this decision and consider going on an IUD or taking a shot if you know that you don't want a child for at least 5 years more.  IUDs can be placed in the uterus and prevent pregnancy for up to 5 years. If at the five year mark you still dont want kids, get another IUD. in 5-15 years you may want another baby. Its really frustrating sometimes with a new baby and another baby barely over a year. But dont let this temporary stressful time discourage you from having more children. You might change your mind drastically in a few years when they are older.

Answer 2

My mum had that done and she was fine. If you're sure that you don't want any more then go for it. You health provider wouldn't be doing it if he didn't thing you was ready esp with the 2 little ones. I am also done making babies (4yr old and 4 month old) but cos I'm only 26 I'm going to leave it a few years. I have a feeling when my brothers start to have kids I might start getting broody. Good Luck.

Answer 3

NO. That's a really invasive procedure. It's much easier and less invasive if you have your partner get a vasectomy. The recovery time is far less and it's easier to reverse, should you change your mind.  

Answer 4

nope

Answer 5

not me..

why not birth control in case you change your mind later??