Hey its a typical problem i have a bully at school?

Question

its a typical problem i have a bully at school and the first time i ever gotten into a fight and i was the new kid so of course people are going to be like who is he?so the bully had been messing with me and drew me into combat i didn't want to fight i dont like fighting but it was self defense so i fought him and won....7months later[may]i thought he'd forgotten about the whole ordeal i did and so you know how people gossip and stuff so i guess he heard that people told everyone he lost the fight so at lunch he comes up to me hits me 3 times and i was going to fight back but i didnt because it wasnt worth my time now im on summer break possibly goin back to the same school with the bully what should i do if he keeps attacking me and what not im even scared to leave my d**n house because i dont want to get like jumped or something and im a non violent kid 14 years old about to enter my freshman year any food for thought because i want my high school year to be good and fun

Answer 1

just be like ''dude please leave me alone'' i really dont want to mess with u today - in a cool voice and u need to like seem more aggresive

Answer 2

If you can beat him, then beat the #@$%$%$#%@^$#^%@$#^@$#@^%#$ out of him, so that he will always be afraid of you

-that is the "teach 'em a lesson" approach

other way is to let him cool down, and wait for everyone to forget about the fight, or at least stop talking about it, so that it just goes away

and you can also hang out with very scary looking upperclassmen so he is too afraid to approach you, but that won't work if he finds you alone.

in any case, people won't be targeted as long as they mind their own business and just mix with the crowd.

Answer 3

Im 15 and enterting high school this year to. Im Star QB for my football team though so I dont got bullies besides i live in a small area so everyone is friends with everyone here. First thing you wanna do. Get an entourage (people that follow you as in friends) also make sure you get to be friends with the senoirs and upper class men. They always got ya back.