Hey please this is Wierd Question but i did this emale so i can ask !?

Question

Hey everyone i have a Question i am 16 soon to be 17 and i have a weird Question that its really making me go crazy ...

Every one has s*x fantasizes but i fantasizes are spanking and BDSM,this weird things !!! and its really true i like them !!! and i watch them but i am strating to get in touch ok i never did it in normal life i wouldnt even i am not this kind of person--------- i would nt even like to do it -....

but iam a little lost how do i stop these thoughts and why do i have them ? thank u

but its really wiert

Answer 1

you sound normal. this is why they are called fantasies. you have them because your normal.

Answer 2

Have you tried talking to a priest?

I hear they're really into that kind of kinky stuff...

(Just KIDDING!!!)

Relax - you've never had a fantasy so strange that a million other people haven't already had.  

At your age, you'll fantasize about just about anything and your tastes will change more often than your favorite movie. Totally normal.

Having a fantasy doesn't mean that you ever have to act upon it, or that it means that you're a particular kind of person.

If the fantasies persist until you're older, you may want to explore them with a partner you trust, but for now, stay safe and enjoy your fantasy!

(One note, if your fantasies ever really worry you, talk to someone you trust, or perhaps ask a million Internet strangers...) ;-)