Hey somebody help me outt?

Question

my friend is really g*y latley. like she always says stuff about my friends that she doesnt even really know but she acts like she does know them. and she talks about them like, wow he is such a f a g g e t ... shes so g*y they are all g*y and tthink their the sheyot. yet shes the one that is g*y and nobody likes her. and ive sorta stuck up for my friends like why do you hate them what did they do to you, and she doesnt get it that she is NOT better than ANY of them. but i dont wanna be a *****, cus ive done that before and we always get in fights. but i dont wanna have a little sentimental chat but how can i get the point across to her that shes not better than them.

and btw, you might get best answer.

Answer 1

You asked for the "way out"...the door is to your left.

Ta

Answer 2

when she's talking about people like that, just like, ask her, hey, do you mind not talking about them like that? and if she doesn't stop, then just tell her you're done with her. if she wants to diss people, then she doesn't need you as  friend

Answer 3

well break it to her nicely or a little tough if shes a true friend shell realize her mistake and fix it but if she isnt u havent lost anything

Answer 4

If i were you i would keep defending your friends. She might just want some attention from you. Maybe she will realize that she isn't right and then will stop saying that.

Answer 5

wow no offense to your friend but i think that she needs some help i mean honestly she probably knows that she isn't any better but wants to think she is so just tell her she isn't and she needs to stop dissing your friends otherwise she isn't worth your time you don't need friends like that  

Answer 6

why is this in legends ??its not really myth !!

Answer 7

Deep down she may be afraid that she is NOT better than your other friends, and this could be why she is dissing them.  Seriously you need to tell her you would like her not to put someone else down in YOUR presence because it offends you.  If she continues to do so that is HARASSment because you have asked her not to.  

Answer 8

With a friend like you who can't type a question fo'shizzle and uses the word g*y as an insult. I'm sure she would be much better without you.

How about just tell her if that don't work.

Answer 9

this is your FRIEND???? You talk about this person like she killed your mother or somethign???

Answer 10

Don't be a jerk about it but let her know that you don't like her talking about people like that. Tell her it bothers you and let her know if she keeps doing it you'll stop hanging out with her. If you sit her down and tell her this (and really mean it) she should get the hint and not take it to heart. Just be really calm and concerned with her and she'll think you're just trying to help.

Answer 11

IMHO, honesty is the best policy.  Clearly her attitude bothers you, but also her friendship is important to you.  My recommendation is to sit down with her and tell her how much she means to you, then tell her that you don't appreciate her tone and her attitude, using this specific example.

I am sure she will be impressed by your candor and your honesty and will change her behavior - at least around you.

Good luck !

Answer 12

How about we stop using the word "g*y" as a generic insult and try again?

Answer 13

Look at her funny, and say "Since when does that have anything to do with how good a friend someone is?"  Then go on with your day. I find stuff like that gets the point across more than yelling.