Hey what do i do?

Question

i upset my wife and sister, but we are getting along now, but i have to break some hard news to my wife.

my daughter...i have a three yr old daughter i just found out about, and i promised my wife she would not live with us, but now i am getting custody, and i dont know how to tell her this.

we all get along, but thats a shock for her. plus she is 5 weeks pregnant with our kid and i dont know what to do. about anything.

thanks

Answer 1

TELL HER NOW.. dont wait if she had a 3 year old and didnt tell u she was getting custody of the child you would be upset. you married her for a reason and you can tell her..GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS

Answer 2

If this was a situation with my husband and I, I would want to know as soon as my husband found out! This type of news will only upset her if she knew you kept it from her for a deal of time. Honestly, I wouldn't feel so bad about it. It is your daughter, any child no matter if it was in your current marriage or a previous one, should be taken seriously and loved and cared for just as equally, I'm sure your wife will understand that. Good luck and hope everything goes well! :)