Heyy i have a question (sorry if this offends anyone)

Question

heyy, im kina and my best friend died from an eating disorder a few months ago. i DID have an eating disorder, but im over it now.

so my question is, does anybody else think that people with eating disorders are selfish. i mean do they even care how it effects the ppl around them. i mean if you really think about it...all they care about is themselves. and getting skinny.

think of all the ppl who are overweight who walk and eat healthy and exercise to get fit. then you have ppl with eating disorders who just dont eat or make themselves throw up. if you ask me...people with eating disorders are to lazy to lose weight the healthy way. all they think about is themselves.

i dont think its right that SOME people actually work to lose weight and they go about it the right way...then you have ppl who just throw their food up.

i think its rediculous

does anybody else agree?

sorry if i offended anyone...but it is MY opinion and i have every right to think it.

Answer 1

If you have had an eating disorder, then you would be the person who would best know.  You are pretty hard on people with an emotional/mental disorder for someone who has suffered it and should know that these things are not within the persons control until they get help.