Heyy is this normal????

Question

hey im using my friends account because i have a question. yesterday, me and my boyfriend of 2 years had s*x for the first time. hes seventteen and i am a couple of days from, turning seventeen too. but anyways, when we started to do it, it hurt soooo bad. i know that its common for it to bleed a little and hurt the first time, but it was almost unbearable. im not very big, about 5'3 and weigh about 110 pounds and my bf is 6'3 and very BIG down there lol. soo i dont know if thats why it is hurting so bad, but what i was aking is it normal for it to hurt a day aftter?? i mean i can seriously barely walk. and is ther any thng i can do to ease the pain a little??

Answer 1

d**n! YOU sure had a good time, could barely walk? wow!

Answer 2

maybe some advil to reduce inflammation if there is any?

it isnt uncommon, but if after a few days the pain doesnt go away, ide get checked out.

i remember being sore down there and it hurting bad, cause the guy was NOT gentle with me, but it gets better, and so does s*x

Answer 3

I think that is normal for your first time.  Dont worry, it gets better :)

Lubrication (KY Jelly) may also help, you can get this near the condoms.  Be sure to practice safe s*x (condoms) and get on the pill if you are going to be sexually active.  If you dont know where to go, see if there is a planned parenthood location by you.