Hi, when my huband and i got married we really didn't have a honey moon.?

Question

last year we won a trip to Florida that we are planning to go on this year. i told him we should wait to be intimate until the trip cuz i want it to be special...it's in a few weeks.. at first he said ok . but now he wants to be close now....then he said i waited a whole year when you were pregnant with our 3rd baby and i don't want to wait anymore. why did he change his mind ? what does he mean by that... ? please help . thanks soo much.

Answer 1

Waiting until your vacation to have s*x is NOT going to make it more special. It's just going to make your husband a very cranky man to live with until then. There are many ways to make a vacation AND s*x special without making him wait for it.  It sounds very clear as to what he meant...he meant that he needs s*x as most healthy men- and women for that matter do. He told you. Listen to him. Do something else to make your vacation special. Get creative so you will have a time you will both remember forever.

Answer 2

Sweetie,

Nature hot wired men for s*x.....they eat, sleep, talk, walk, etc......s*x....practically every other thought is s*x. The only time they aren't thinking about doing IT, is when they are doing it, and I guarentee before they've 'finished' they are thinking about the next time.......

Um, you made him wait a whole year during your third pregnancy? I can understand after the seventh month and for up to 6 weeks after the birth but the poor guy went solo for a whole year?????? Did you have medical problems? That would be the only excuse to deny him.......

So, has 'nookie' resumed yet or do you still have him in dry dock...if it's okay medically to resume dancin' between the sheets and you're still denying him.....what's with you????? Your insides lined with gold?

If he hasta wait until Florida, Cupcake it aint gonna be special, he's gonna be DESPERATE...you aint gonna get romance, you're gonna get steam rollered..he's gonna go atcha full steam and you won;t know what the blazes hit! lol..........pluuuuu-eeeze! Have pity on the poor wretch...

beside deary, if he's been denied that long he's gonna be in one h@ll of a rush.....speed and romance do NOT go hand in hand.

but....

if he's had some he won't be as, um 'eager' and therefore he'll have that 'slow hand' us ladies adore.....think about it....

..and have mercy lol.

Answer 3

well I see no point in actually waiting until  your trip because obviously you weren't a virgin when you married being that you have 3kids...i don't mean to be rude...but its not like your going to give him something he already hasn't had

Answer 4

You "should wait to be intimate"??  You are telling your husband to wait for s*x?  And you really think he should agree to it?  If you're on your 3rd child, how much more "special" can the s*x be?  Creative? Yes.  Adventurous? Yes.  Romantic?  Yes.  But "special"?  Come on now...  Please don't get me wrong.  I'm not trying to be mean or harsh.  I just think that your request to wait until your vacation to have s*x with your husband is selfish, and likely a cop-out for something that you're running from yourself.  Love your husband emotionally and physically and let him love you back too.

Answer 5

Men like to be close and intimate with women, even more so when he loves her. I understand why you want to wait, as a women, it can be romantic, but for a man it can be a lot harder.

Men are NOT wired like we are, we think different and our hormones work differently. You two need to find common ground.

Instead of asking Yahoo! what he meant, why don't you sit down and ask HIM what he mean. Communication is key to a healthy and solid relationship.