Hi,I am a bachelor of 28 yrs old and not good looking but nice looking girl stares me how do i go with her?

Question

The girl sometimes even smile at me but i am thinking why she must be interested for ugly looking guy.How to find out her attitude towards me?Shall i invite for the cofee and talk?I am upset when I imagine going along with her as it may not look good pair?

Answer 1

Sounds like you have a problem with your self image. You see yourself as ugly. First of all. stop beating up yourself, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She may see you as very handsome. So be more confident with yourself. If you choose to see yourself as ugly, then how can you think anyone else will see you different. There is more to a person than just their face. Beauty is a passing thing. It does not last forever, but if someone loves you, it lasts for a lifetime. I advise you to go up to this girl, tell her what an incredible smile she has and ask her if she would like to sit down to a cup of coffee, your treat. Stop seeing yourself as ugly, be confident. She sees you as someone worth smiling at. As for worrying about what you two look like as a pair. Who cares. As long as the two of you are happy. Go for it. and stop calling yourself ugly. It is bad for your health.

Answer 2

sounds like you have a low self esteem. you couldn't possibly look that bad if he's interested. just go for it. who cares what other people think. you're old enough to know that.

Answer 3

stop being so down on yourself...ever heard the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder?? To her, you might be very good looking...take the chance and ask her to have coffee with you...you never know what might happen. Be sure to smile, and approach her with confidence. Good luck.

Answer 4

day1: smile

if she reply by smile.

  cont....7 days (no holiday allowed)

else keep on walking forget what you think

after a week

Invitation for coffee.....let's be friends

Be aware pune is tough in these cases for local parties

Answer 5

The first thing is never think u arent good looking. That is ur taste - indeed someone will like that appearance which u hate - moreover, it will make u inferiour. So, think high - if u really think see likesu just start by waving at her, then one fine day apprach and ask her y see used to WAVE Y - not look at u. If u get a positive answer, slowly - i cannt explain all u see ur taste - start dating. Then its ur story...

If u get a negative answer just forget her - dont think u will never get anyone...

Bye dude...hope it works...

Answer 6

I look/smile at every person in my office because i'm a friendly person, but I am in a relationship and wouldn't go out with anyone else.

If she talks to you then she may be interested or if she doesn't talk she may be shy, don't ask her out, ask her if she had a nice weekend her answer will tell you if she's interested or not.

Answer 7

Go to a mirror and check for broccoli in your teeth, then just be nice and ask her out to dinner.

Answer 8

you have 2 choices you can ask her out or regret it the rest of your life

Answer 9

You should ask. I mean the worst thing that could happen is she'll say no. If she does say no. Then say "Well I guess you haven't gotten those herpes cleared up yet, So maybe we shouldn't go out. But thanks anyway."

Answer 10

wht r u thinking About u r self tht  may not be in others. in case of love u r physical not a matter but may be something she likes from u.better u take her to coffechat or just ask the straightaway about her feelings

Answer 11

28 and asking questions that a 13 year old posts???